Hooyo said she won't accept 'no' when it comes to marriage lol

[Kizaru]

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[Dualke]

Why not date and take things casual until you find someone you like?

 

[Kizaru]

ok this guy is abit weird, M is nothing compared to a real women, there is 0 comparison, I guess this is what happens when you can't get married young in this society, can't commit zina, and stay at home all day, if he ever gets siil, he will realise he made a big mistake thinking M was better, it isn't even just about the feeling, touching a women and being physical with her is 100% better then soulless lonely tugging at your meat

bro what kind of analogy is that

 

[cooli3o]

bro what kind of analogy is that

wdym

 

[Kizaru]

wdym

i read the last part only mb

 

[Ozymandias]

This is the type of xalimo that I'm afraid I would end up marrying. No peace at work or at home. I would probably enjoy being at work more than being at home since I would end up with geelo and madax xanuun

Abaayo thank you for reminding me

Work is lowkey easier than living with women tbh, life experience, cos there is always something to do . After a weeks work I want to chill at home and do jack shit, but that's called being lazy

 

[Ozymandias]

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[Zkr]

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If what you wrote is that bad after it’s edited I wonder how bad it was before

 

[Zkr]

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Xishoodka allow noo badi

 

[Basra]

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huuno @Wavepapi knows the walls are closing in. Either marry the girl hooyo wants or move out

 

[Nin123]

Hi guys. So I used to try to avoid the subject in the past when my hooyo wanted to talk about it but recently I've straight up said no since I don't want to lead her on as I'm pretty sure I don't wanna marry

However, my mom (like most women) can be pretty crazy about certain things and has said she won't accept no for an answer. I get the feeling I may even end up getting kicked out of the house if things get to that point. I don't mind living alone but it's a waste of money if I can live at home and that money can be used for much better things

This guy just marry already I don’t know why are you afraid or avoiding marriage.

 

[Sophisticate]

Don't marry.

You will become an emotionally unavailable father who secretly despises their wife and children and does everything to avoid them.

I know your type. I can smell their commitment phobia from a mile away. They regularly pour themselves into academia or work to avoid marriage. The reason varies from wanting personal freedom/fear of losing control to not wanting to do the emotional labour required to be in a relationship, or there might be some mental health challenges under the hood.

 

[cooli3o]

Don't marry.

You will become an emotionally unavailable father who secretly despises their wife and children and does everything to avoid them.

I know your type. I can smell their commitment phobia from a mile away. They regularly pour themselves into academia or work to avoid marriage. The reason varies from wanting personal freedom/fear of losing control to not wanting to do the emotional labour required to be in a relationship, or there might be some mental health challenges under the hood.

that is exactly me

The problem though, as Man, is that although you may hate marriage, most men,cannot control themselves sexually, therefore are compelled to get married for a halal outlet, I guarantee you alot of men do not love their wives or children they just deal with them because thats the life the man chose for himself

Most men are not ready for marriage, especiallly in todays day and age, takes alot of learning and room for growth as a person, also alot of sacrifice,

I don't even understand why men get married tbh, but at the end of the day, life was never enjoyable, its always painful, men love women, even if they won't try to have a successful marriage, they will still want to be married, which to a certain extent is a societal necessity, from the aspect of having kids and sustaining the population

 

[rid1waan]

moral of the story hoyoo wants you to continue the bloodline however being an incel is a uncurable

 

[cooli3o]

@Kalsoon why the dislike

 

[Kalsoon]

@Kalsoon why the dislike

You have issues that you think many men share with you. You should speak for yourself alone. Nobody made you their representative.

 

[cooli3o]

You have issues that you think many men share with you. You should speak for yourself alone. Nobody made you their representative.

Im right most men are not ready to accept the truth though it is what it is

 

[Wervelwind]

Don't marry.

You will become an emotionally unavailable father who secretly despises their wife and children and does everything to avoid them.

I know your type. I can smell their commitment phobia from a mile away. They regularly pour themselves into academia or work to avoid marriage. The reason varies from wanting personal freedom/fear of losing control to not wanting to do the emotional labour required to be in a relationship, or there might be some mental health challenges under the hood.

I think you hit the nail on the head

 

[Unicorn]

Depends. If you've tried to find the right person and noticed u just don't like relationships then don't marry just so ur mom's happy u might get divorced fast. If you haven't tried finding someone u should start. I'm in the same boat as u after trying I'm in the stage where Im content being by myself and it feels peaceful now but I know my fam wants me to settle lol I wish I had a time machine to see if I would be happy in the future

 

[Ozymandias]

I think you hit the nail on the head

Life is short man, don't live a life you don't want to lead, have as much fun as you want