Hooyo said she won't accept 'no' when it comes to marriage lol

[Wervelwind]

Hi guys. So I used to try to avoid the subject in the past when my hooyo wanted to talk about it but recently I've straight up said no since I don't want to lead her on as I'm pretty sure I don't wanna marry

However, my mom (like most women) can be pretty crazy about certain things and has said she won't accept no for an answer. I get the feeling I may even end up getting kicked out of the house if things get to that point. I don't mind living alone but it's a waste of money if I can live at home and that money can be used for much better things

 

[Kool-Aid]

Live you life on your own terms! Don't let anyone else guilt trip you into doing things that can drastically impact your life.

 

[techsamatar]

how old are you ?

 

[heisenberg]

Anaa ku guursanaya

 

[Hodan from HR]

I don't mind living alone but it's a waste of money if I can live at home and that money can be used for much better things

You'll still have to "waste money" once you get married since you are expected to financially support your wife and future children.

My advice: leave hoyo's nest.
It is better than dragging someone's daughter into a half-assed marriage..

 

[Kalsoon]

Hooyo wii kaa naxeesaa. She wants to make sure you have a support system. At least genuinely try to see. Then, tell her you tried but it didn’t work out. Don’t let regret consume you in your later years.

A good marriage can bring you many blessings that singledom will never offer.

 

[Wervelwind]

how old are you ?

32

 

[Wervelwind]

Hooyo wii kaa naxeesaa. She wants to make sure you have a support system. At least genuinely try to see. Then, tell her you tried but it didn’t work out. Don’t let regret consume you in your later years.

A good marriage can bring you many blessings that singledom will never offer.

That's true but there are things you know you won't like even without trying it. I've always been the type of person who loves being alone. I think it's xasiid to the girl as well

 

[Wervelwind]

Live you life on your own terms! Don't let anyone else guilt trip you into doing things that can drastically impact your life.

That's what I think as well. It's a huge thing

 

[Ozymandias]

As a muslim how do you deal with sex?

 

[Ozymandias]

I have noticed that a lot of men and women being content with being single and doing their own thing, it's positive in the sense that it prevents divorce imo

 

[Siddhartha]

Lol bro move out its way past time

 

[techsamatar]

32

why do you not want to have wife and kids at that age warya?

Your hoyo wants some grandkids, study was done that when your old you need to be around children it can potentially improve your health.

 

[Kalsoon]

That's true but there are things you know you won't like even without trying it. I've always been the type of person who loves being alone. I think it's xasiid to the girl as well

You may enjoy being a loner but we us human aren’t built that way. We have a need for attachment. You seem like you are avoidant and anxious about attachment. It’s cool if you’re ok with that. Once people know about theirs though, they try to get to healthy attachment. It makes your health, well-being and life quality improve.

 

[Wervelwind]

As a muslim how do you deal with sex?

sxb it starts with the letter m

why do you not want to have wife and kids at that age warya?

Your hoyo wants some grandkids, study was done that when your old you need to be around children it can potentially improve your health.

It all sounds like a headache and too much work. Especially if your wife is super emotional

 

[Kalsoon]

I have noticed that a lot of men and women being content with being single and doing their own thing, it's positive in the sense that it prevents divorce imo

Yea but when that loneliness hits

 

[Ozymandias]

sxb it starts with the letter m



It all sounds like a headache and too much work. Especially if your wife is super emotional

Nah but don't you want to bust some cheeks? . Siigo never satisfied me completely

 

[Ozymandias]

Yea but when that loneliness hits

I think that people who have been single for a long time kind of adapt to it from what I know . Hugging a woman and stuff is pretty nice though, female skin is definitely softer than ours

 

[Kalsoon]

I think that people who have been single for a long time kind of adapt to it from what I know . Hugging a woman and stuff is pretty nice though, female skin is definitely softer than ours

So you enjoy female companionship but not marriage? Sounds about gaal.

I agree with you-we adapt to what we become accustomed to. That doesn’t mean they can’t adapt to sharing a life with someone they love. As long as someone is motivated enough.

 

[Ozymandias]

So you enjoy female companionship but not marriage? Sounds about gaal.

I agree with you-we adapt to what we become accustomed to. That doesn’t mean they can’t adapt to sharing a life with someone they love. As long as someone is motivated enough.

Oh nah hopefully if I have a longterm girlfriend I'll most likely marry her. I'll probably have kids with her. I'm good with kids anyway, cooking and cleaning etc