Younes Osman
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HI...... SO I WAS JUST WONDERING.............. HOW MUCH IS A MEHER?
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It ranges from a tufaax to $50k, it depends who is asking sxb 
*sigh*
This is an annoying topic is going to go around and around in circles. Every mehr talk goes like:
1. Women will state high mehr because she thinks she’s worth a lot.
2. Men will say they’d never pay that since xalimos aren’t worth that much,
3. Women will call the men broke and poor
4. Men will say they’ll marry an ajanabi or girl back home.
You’ll get the usual “women would accept 25cents from an ajanabi laakin 25k from somali men” comments aswell
This is an annoying topic is going to go around and around in circles. Every mehr talk goes like:
1. Women will state high mehr because she thinks she’s worth a lot.
2. Men will say they’d never pay that since xalimos aren’t worth that much,
3. Women will call the men broke and poor
4. Men will say they’ll marry an ajanabi or girl back home.
You’ll get the usual “women would accept 25cents from an ajanabi laakin 25k from somali men” comments aswell
I think women deserve a high meher price, because it is her security. Something she can fall on if her husband neglects her or perishes. However, gentlemen you must be wise. Pay a small portion upfront. Check her blood for STDs, her womb for bastards, and her finances for debt because all of that becomes your problem. Do that before consummating the marriage. If you find anything that dissatisfies you,
you have a right to a full refund.
Adopt a new culture, make a forum for it, and have that discussion there. This islamnimo iyo somalinimo saaxib.
