No I wouldn't marry someone after a few meetings at a coffee shop since I'm not trying to marry the wrong person and be stuck with them. But like I'd get to know the person as a friend first you know not like a proper friend but just on a friendly level since your partner will be your best friend.
I don't need to get intimate with a person to know they're right for me since I'm marrying them for their traits and personality which are the things that will keep us strong and love one another even if one gets sick or when we get older and our physical beauty and strength to get intimate dwindles and I'd much rather get married and develop our connection on a intimate level since its always going to be different from halal dating or haram dating to marrying them.
Also, I think it'd be more special to be intimate with someone you already love and want to spend the rest of my life with not someone I'm still not feeling a strong connection with.
Lol at this long ass speech I'm doing at night.