Has a girl ever proposed to you?

[Based]

A xalimo proposing to a faarax? Either you are the Somali Hercules or she is just using you for financial gain

 

[Juke]

A xalimo proposing to a faarax? Either you are the Somali Hercules or she is just using you for financial gain

What about if their fathers/uncles propose on their behalf

 

[Based]

What about if their fathers/uncles propose on their behalf

that's when you know you're winning in life.

 

[TekNiKo]

A xalimo proposing to a faarax? Either you are the Somali Hercules or she is just using you for financial gain

I think its because I am very kind and gentle with women. Maskiin ban iska ahay wadaad ah, I would carry my tusbax and go to mosque everyday, women like religious men

 

[Hybrid()]

I think its because I am very kind and gentle with women. Maskiin ban iska ahay wadaad ah, I would carry my tusbax and go to mosque everyday, women like religious men

She wouldn't remember about your existence if you were a local miskiin wadaad. Western Farah need to have high standards when it comes to marrying from third world countries. Any xalimo who's gonna raise your future children should be at least a university graduate or have a high score in her high school exit exam. There's no reason to downgrade yourself when there's so many girls competing for your western passport.

 

[Kanan]

Obviously she's from back home lol.

They're a lot more aggressive with their approach, even though they're more traditional at the same time. Its weird.

Only a Xalimo back home would brazenly flirt with you, despite having a wife. If they feel that man can take care of them, they don't care. No loyalty, no chill. Life's difficult I suppose.

I generally don't mind a girl shooting her shot. God knows Somalia is terrible and they'd waste no chance to get out. It's the prior knowledge that ruins everything. Imagine a girl you picked up to school along with your sisters do this. You'll always see her as little girl/sister especially if she's a relative. That's a quick turn off. Also the fact first wife invites her to their house and then she tries to "get with her husband" doesn't sit well with me.



I told you before Somali girls from back home are conniving and think 10 steps ahead they'll run circles around you without knowing it but in this case it's too much. She has enough faith in her beauty/personality to openly propose to OP despite knowing & being freind with his wife.


Cut throat Somalis may Allah never make us reach this level of poverty and desperation.

 

[KobeBryant]

Ohhh Canada!

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[Angelina]

I generally don't mind a girl shooting her shot. God knows Somalia is terrible and they'd waste no chance to get out. It's the prior knowledge that ruins everything. Imagine a girl you picked up to school along with your sisters do this. You'll always see her as little girl/sister especially if she's a relative. That's a quick turn off. Also the fact first wife invites her to their house and then she tries to "get with her husband" doesn't sit well with me.



I told you before Somali girls from back home are conniving and think 10 steps ahead they'll run circles around you without knowing it but in this case it's too much. She has enough faith in her beauty/personality to openly propose to OP despite knowing & being freind with his wife.


Cut throat Somalis may Allah never make us reach this level of poverty and desperation.

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[Unbothered]

She proposed to your passport not you lol

 

[TekNiKo]

I generally don't mind a girl shooting her shot. God knows Somalia is terrible and they'd waste no chance to get out. It's the prior knowledge that ruins everything. Imagine a girl you picked up to school along with your sisters do this. You'll always see her as little girl/sister especially if she's a relative. That's a quick turn off. Also the fact first wife invites her to their house and then she tries to "get with her husband" doesn't sit well with me.



I told you before Somali girls from back home are conniving and think 10 steps ahead they'll run circles around you without knowing it but in this case it's too much. She has enough faith in her beauty/personality to openly propose to OP despite knowing & being freind with his wife.


Cut throat Somalis may Allah never make us reach this level of poverty and desperation.

Hey a girl can shoot her shot right? They are humans too, they are tired of gaajo local men who are very hard handed

 

[TekNiKo]

Ohhh Canada!

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Waryaa I am savage I told her straight up “basaboordoon hadaad tahay aniga sharci kuma hayo weli ma i rabtaa?” she said yes some women just need good husband

 

[Hybrid()]

Waryaa I am savage I told her straight up “basaboordoon hadaad tahay aniga sharci kuma hayo weli ma i rabtaa?” she said yes some women just need good husband

Woman think ahead when it comes to choosing a potential husband. In this case, she has high hopes that her kids will be successful. Her future kids with you will be Canadians after all, be able to get top level education and get good paying jobs that can support her immediate family for life and also sponsor her to live in Canada. did you forget that children are a financial security for somali parents ?
That's why you have women with genius level IQ who are willing to settle with an average western Farah because there's lack of financial security in somalia and even becoming a doctor or lawyer in somalia can't get your family out of poverty.

 

[KobeBryant]

Waryaa I am savage I told her straight up “basaboordoon hadaad tahay aniga sharci kuma hayo weli ma i rabtaa?” she said yes some women just need good husband

Respect

 

[TekNiKo]

Woman think ahead when it comes to choosing a potential husband. In this case, she has high hopes that her kids will be successful. Her future kids with you will be Canadians after all, be able to get top level education and get good paying jobs that can support her immediate family for life and also sponsor her to live in Canada. did you forget that children are a financial security for somali parents ?
That's why you have women with genius level IQ who are willing to settle with an average western Farah because there's lack of financial security in somalia and even becoming a doctor or lawyer in somalia can't get your family out of poverty.

Hmm so your saying she is playing the long game, very smart and wise thing to do. I still didnt bring my current wife to Canada what makes you think Ill bring a new wife I am very smart man and will never allow to used by baasboor doon

 

[Deleted L]

Wth some family friend proposed to me and she is like 19, I treated her like my little sister and knew her since she 15. I dont know what to do since I am already married she knows this too and even met visted my house I thought she was joking at first but she is dead serious ?! This is why ladies should be careful who they bring to their house

She grew up to a fine young gazelle too. I dont know what to do I am flabbergasted

The answer is very simple. Do you really need to ask this question? If you are able to marry her without displeasing your wife and if you are capable of treating them equally then you can do so. If you know you won’t be able to handle her and it’s going to cause problems and difficulty in your life then don’t marry her, very simple.

 

[Angelina]

Hmm so your saying she is playing the long game, very smart and wise thing to do. I still didnt bring my current wife to Canada what makes you think Ill bring a new wife I am very smart man and will never allow to used by baasboor doon

Honestly, what about your children saxib? Why marry if you're not going to have a normal stable family unit? Why would you deprive your children of a chance to get a good education? To be able to freely travel? You're getting young adults in Somalia risking their lived doing Tahreb, when this is something you can easily do for your family.

 

[Hybrid()]

Hmm so your saying she is playing the long game, very smart and wise thing to do. I still didnt bring my current wife to Canada what makes you think Ill bring a new wife I am very smart man and will never allow to used by baasboor doon

Nobody is relying on you sxb. Your children are the social security for their mother unless you're saying you're deliberately depriving your own flesh and blood of education and opportunity ? But I highly doubt you'll be cruel enough to do such thing to your own children.

 

[TekNiKo]

Honestly, what about your children saxib? Why marry if you're not going to have a normal stable family unit? Why would you deprive your children of a chance to get a good education? To be able to freely travel? You're getting young adults in Somalia risking their lived doing Tahreb, when this is something you can easily do for your family.

I value diin and dhaqan over such trivial things inshallah, Western education is corrupted and they will teach them disgusting things at school like homosexuality at the age of 6. They will also finish the Quran there. Those who tahriib dont know the evils of the West and only aee a manufactured reality on social media

Nobody is relying on you sxb. Your children are the social security for their mother unless you're saying you're deliberately depriving your own flesh and blood of education and opportunity ? But I highly doubt you'll be cruel enough to do such thing to your own children.

Your a non Muslim you wouldnt understand the ramifications of raising children in the decadent West the whole reason I married back home is to avoid such decadence. I value diin over “Western education” which is a scam

 

[Angelina]

I value diin and dhaqan over such trivial things inshallah, Western education is corrupted and they will teach them disgusting things at school like homosexuality at the age of 6. They will also finish the Quran there. Those who tahriib dont know the evils of the West and only aee a manufactured reality on social media


Your a non Muslim you wouldnt understand the ramifications of raising children in the decadent West the whole reason I married back home is to avoid such decadence. I value diin over “Western education” which is a scam

I'm talking about high school age when they will need to start thinking of securing a livelihood. Calling it 'Western' education is dumb as maths, sciences and languages are importannt skills. During the Islamic golden ages we were the pioneers and due to attidudes like yours, we're become weak, poor and fighting amongst each other.

There are other Islamic countries with good educational opportunities you can use by utilising your privileges that you have by securing them Western passports first. Your kids are going to need to put food on the table in the future. People that make Tahreb simply want to make money, which is something they unfortunately can't do back home.

 

[TekNiKo]

I'm talking about high school age when they will need to start thinking of securing a livelihood. Calling it 'Western' education is dumb as maths, sciences and languages are importannt skills. During the Islamic golden ages we were the pioneers and due to attidudes like yours, we're become weak, poor and fighting amongst each other.

There are other Islamic countries with good educational opportunities you can use by utilising your privileges that you have by securing them Western passports first. Your kids are going to need to put food on the table in the future. People that make Tahreb simply want to make money, which is something they unfortunately can't do back home.

They can learn all this in Somalia, diin is more important, what does Islam say about migrating to kuffar lands? Its not permissible in reality unless your doing dacwa. Why should I bring my kids to such an evil environment. I am planning to relocate myself once I finish my building my properties.

Science and math wont save you in the aakhira, only Quran and sunnah.