Getting Married Young

[GlitzyCue_]

Doesn't work if I'm seated. The idea is to make your legs scratch the ceiling. The rush of blood to your head whilst your safe space is getting polished is like a rollercoaster ride. BTW, you do realize o my you and I can follow this Convo?

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

If you say so. If that's the case, I'd rather that both parties know what's up from the get go. And do you really think women would knowingly sign up to do Misyaar? Transparency is key.

They sign up for premarital sex, oral sex, anal sex, bondage, STDs, teen pregnancies, you name it. Why would it make any difference if a wadaad says a few Arabic words over them before they do it? Marriage doesn't have to mean a lavish wedding hall and invites to half your village. It means only that person A can lawfully screw person B. Somalis have made it into an extravaganza. Their weddings are more Western than Islamic. The Sahaba used to marry with no mehr. They were poor and ill clad desert people. The prophet said that you could give your knowledge of the Quran as a form of dowry.

 

[Desert Flower]

They sign up for premarital sex, oral sex, anal sex, bondage, STDs, teen pregnancies, you name it. Why would it make any difference if a wadaad says a few Arabic words over them before they do it? Marriage doesn't have to mean a lavish wedding hall and invites to half your village. It means only that person A can screw person B. Somalis have made it into an extravaganza. Their wedding are more Western than Islamic. The Sahaba used to marry with no mehr. They were poor and I'll clad desert people. The prophet said that you could give your knowledge of the Quran as a form of dowry.

Akhaas. It would take me a while to unpack all that you've written. And besides, half of what you mentioned IS haram. And if sex is what you're looking for, you can have all that AND more in a normal, halal marriage. No need to cut corners.

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

This kneegrow's teeth is whiter than his T-shirt. Amazing.

 

[Ubax45_]

I'm not sure what sect you practice, but what you're referring to is Mut'ah. Shia's do it mostly.

He's not Muslim.

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

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That's true- lust is indeed a grave sin. Baby steps though, we all struggle with something different. Thoughts are harder to control than actions; there's not always as intentional -- in my opinion, no need to add on to it.

And no one's saying there's a 'point of no return' with sins though (only a few are unforgivable, afaik).

Cursing the Holy Ghost is the only unredeemable sin from what I recall of going to kaniisad. Not for my own purposes I hasten to add. The girl I was dating was a Lutheran big on Geezus

Your religion says that lust is worse than sex with your BF because adultery is punished by stoning whereas premarital sex is not. So my solution is better.

Also, lust is easily avoided: Avert your gaze from Xvideos.

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

He's not Muslim.

You're right. I'm a mu'min.

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

Akhaas. It would take me a while to unpack all that you've written. And besides, half of what you mentioned IS haram. And if sex is what you're looking for, you can have all that AND more in a normal, halal marriage. No need to cut corners.

A ten your old is gonna have a normal marriage? Riiiite. The kid only wants bam-wham-thank-you-mam.

I know those things are haram. That's the point. If there's no halal avenue, there are many haraam ones to entice people.

 

[Desert Flower]

A ten your old is gonna have a normal marriage? Riiiite. The kid only wants bam-wham-thank-you-mam.

I know those things are haram. That's the point. If there's no halal avenue, there are many haraam ones to entice people.

Where did I mention anything about a 10 year-old having or wanting sex?

I guess we will agree to disagree.

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

Where did I mention anything about a 10 year-old having or wanting sex?

I guess we will agree to disagree.

No, but kids start thinking of sex when puberty hits. Around eleven. You're telling me they're gonna successfully avoid getting their loins wet till they're in their twenties? They're sinning every day. They wank so much their dick is sore. Why not keep it halal? It's because you've been conditioned by the Wahabbi kuffar
like @Ubax45_ to think marriage means a 50k mehr. The prophet said if you can't avoid sex, marry or fast. How many horny kids do you see fasting?