Gentlemans of S-spot what would I have done ? I wldve done something & then flee the country

[The Cushitic One]

I've recently realized my female has a save full of gold. I stupidly didn't pay attention when her mom visited Dubai and then visited us and offloaded this gold. Apparently it's a Somali tradition where moms give dahab to daughters ( maybe I was suppose to do it and the poor islaan got tired of looking at me ).

Now this gold is for rainy days, if ever

Too many Hoyo's have used their dahabs to bail out their kids in Canada

You was meant to buy her the dahaab!

Pay back you're mother in law, that's very embarrassing wallahi

Does you stinginess know any bounds?


How can you look her in the eyes?

I bet they talk about you behind you're back, I would!

 

[John Michael]

diamonds depreciate in value.



Gold or cold hard cash.

 

[Bohol]

@EedoMenace Instead of buying her a 5k ring buy her a land (land value goes up very fast), that is a better investment than a ring that can get lost or stolen anytime.

 

[VixR]

I'm not arguing it's legality. Obviously the court decided the way it decided. It is not a gift, at least not in the traditional sense, hence the TV or handbag example. By definition it is given on the promise of marriage which she cancelled. Very classless thing to do

The guy broke off the engagement, she gave it back at first, he told her to keep it, thereby giving to her again, and then he decided he wanted it back afterall, took her to court and didn't get it. Classless kulaha, the guy is the classless one in this scenario

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

You was meant to buy her the dahaab!

Pay back you're mother in law, that's very embarrassing wallahi

Does you stinginess know any bounds?


How can you look her in the eyes?

I bet they talk about you behind you're back, I would!

They do talk abt me tremendously.

While the mother-in-law was here I was driving her around and I have a habit of only putting 3 gallons ( 14 liter ) of gas in my car. She paid too much attention to me, she calls me back to the car and said "here ! Fill up the tank ". She handed me like $20 and instead of being a proper Somali man that should've rejected it I said "alright ". I took that to the attending guy inside the store and told him "$15 in pump 7".

Her daughter later told me that she is incredibly embarrassed of me. I just shrugged it off.

You just don't live for people and they'll talk. In-laws are enemies in waiting

 

[black]

The guy broke off the engagement, she gave it back at first, he told her to keep it, thereby giving to her again, and then he decided he wanted it back afterall, took her to court and didn't get it. Classless kulaha, the guy is the classless one in this scenario

He didn't believe his fiancee could afford her half of the wedding cost, the court heard, and feared he would get stuck paying for the whole bill.

He suggested postponing the wedding but she did not want to. Finally, she decided to end the relationship.

On my left nut those were rage-induced text messages. It's 100% on her

 

[VixR]

On my left nut those were rage-induced text messages. It's 100% on her

You were biased, but now you're just being plain emotional

 

[black]

You were biased, now you're just being plain emotional

Explain to me how he cancelled the wedding?

 

[The Cushitic One]

They do talk abt me tremendously.

While the mother-in-law was here I was driving her around and I have a habit of only putting 3 gallons ( 14 liter ) of gas in my car. She paid too much attention to me, she calls me back to the car and said "here ! Fill up the tank ". She handed me like $20 and instead of being a proper Somali man that should've rejected it I said "alright ". I took that to the attending guy inside the store and told him "$15 in pump 7".

Her daughter later told me that she is incredibly embarrassed of me. I just shrugged it off.

You just don't live for people and they'll talk. In-laws are enemies in waiting

It's official she thinks you're cheap skate!!!

I'm crying hahahahagagagagagahaha

 

[merka]

This is a textbook law case. Since he was the one who broke off the engagement she gets to keep the ring. If she broke off the engagement then he gets to have the ring back

 

[VixR]

Explain to me how he cancelled the wedding?

They couldn't agree on the wedding. He broke off the engagement, told her to KEEP the ring and then pursued it in court, and she's the classless one?

You're injecting youself into that situation bc of the $10k value.

 

[Ferrari]

I am getting my shit back. one way or another. If I tell her to keep it, then it would be stupid to ask it back but if I got her a ring thinking we would marry and we don't, she better give it nicely.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

It's official she thinks you're cheap skate!!!

I'm crying hahahahagagagagagahaha

I'm not cheap, I'm more practical

 

[black]

They couldn't agree on the wedding, he broke off the engagement.

She's asking him for something he's not willing to give her and she's refusing the alternative. She wanted a lavish wedding, he didn't. How exactly did he call it off?

 

[VixR]

She's asking him for something he's not willing to give her and she's refusing the alternative. She wanted a lavish wedding, he didn't. How exactly did he call it off?

Read the article; she wanted a lavish wedding and he was afraid she wouldn't pay her part so he called off the wedding and postponed the engagement indefinitely, she then finally broke up the relationship bc they'd taken up a whole year disagreeing and now he was being indefinite about the date, he then told her to keep the ring, and now he wants it back. He doubly decided the verdict.

 

[InfoMatic]

It's not the same thing as buying her a really expensive TV or handbag. It was given with the promise, and in a sense condition they would marry. It should absolutely not be at her discretion imo.

If you give a gift to a woman you care about, you do so with the intention of not getting it back no matter how ugly the break up is. I would see that as beneath my nobility. To ask back something I gave out of love and respect. Only a man who feels a loser does something like that brother, others with pride walk away to start a new life.

 

[black]

If you give a gift to a woman you care about, you do so with the intention of not getting it back no matter how ugly the break up is. I would see that as beneath my nobility. To ask back something I gave out of love and respect. Only a man who feels a loser does something like brother, others with pride walk away to start a new life.

Yes, if you're talking about literally anything other than an engagement ring. It's not really about monetary value (although £10k definitely gives incentive), let's substitute that with a family heirloom. Say that for whatever reason you gave her your ayeeyo's ring. If you break up, for whatever reason, any somewhat reasonable person would give it back. Let's say she isn't. Are you consistent with your logic? Because you did gift it to her, therefore making it hers.