Gentlemans of S-spot what would I have done ? I wldve done something & then flee the country

[Grigori Rasputin]

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-40294530

She wouldn't have enjoyed it in my book

 

[black]

The couple had been engaged for one year before deciding to call it quits because the two could not agree about how to pay for the wedding.
Ms Arbuckle wanted a lavish affair, while Mr Sherrington wanted something more cost-conscious.
He didn't believe his fiancee could afford her half of the wedding cost, the court heard, and feared he would get stuck paying for the whole bill.
He suggested postponing the wedding but she did not want to. Finally, she decided to end the relationship.

He's definitely stupid, but what an absolute c*nt she is. I hope for his sake £10k isn't much to him, and only wants it back just to get back at her.

Personally, ain't no way I'm letting her walk off with that regardless of what the judge said.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

This is what I don't understand Walahi. A good friend of mine recently bought his fiancé ( now wife) a $5k diamond ring.

I pleaded with him to not do it. He was hell-bend on buying her that. I told home "the chance s of this relationship breaking a part is high. Don't d it ". He was like "me and Sagan are soulmates "

 

[Steamdevolopment]

I'm not a gentleman but under danish law something similar would happen.

A gift given in the pursuit of mariage is not legally binding it goes against the autonomy of that personhood establishes and such once the gift has been given the receiver can keep it and not marry.

However if there is a legally binding contract of sort the man could ask for compensation equivalent to the gift.

 

[VixR]

You can't take someone to court for a gift you gave them and expect it back, and this goes for any gift, man to woman, woman to man, etc. Most women give it back anyway, but it's really up to the discretion of the woman to dispose of it as she will. He got the Mexico money back, which is fair.

 

[Gambar]

This is what I don't understand Walahi. A good friend of mine recently bought his fiancé ( then) a $5k diamond ring.

I pleaded with him to not do it. He was hell-bend on buying her that. I told home "the chance s of this relationship breaking a part is high. Don't d it ". He was like "me and Sagan are soulmates "

What a stingy xoolo you are!!!!

 

[black]

You can't take someone to court for a gift you gave them and expect it back, and this is for any gift, man to woman, woman to man, etc. Most women give it back anyway, but it's really up to the discretion of the woman to dispose of it as she will. He got the Mexico money back, which is fair.

It's not the same thing as buying her a really expensive TV or handbag. It was given with the promise, and in a sense condition they would marry. It should absolutely not be at her discretion imo.

 

[VixR]

It's not the same thing as buying her a really expensive TV or handbag. It was given with the promise, and in a sense condition they would marry. It should absolutely not be at her discretion imo.

No. Gifts are given without expectation or return. If you give something to someone expecting something in return, it's a sale, not a gift. Promises, especially unmade promises by the receiver of the gift that're actually more accurately in the form of an immaterial expectation by the giver, don't stand up in court. He got the Mexico money back precisely bc it was a loan.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

What a stingy xoolo you are!!!!

My theory is that in the event of a divorce I'm gonna be "hooyadii *%%*" no matter what. Even if I'm such a generous guy I'll still be "hooyadii #^^%" in her view so why should I be a stingy "hooyadii ^*%^^".

 

[Gambar]

My theory is that in the event of a divorce I'm gonna be "hooyadii *%%*" no matter what. Even if I'm such a generous guy I'll still be "hooyadii #^^%" in her view so why should I be a stingy "hooyadii ^*%^^".

Habaar Allah kugu rid!

 

[El padrone]

My theory is that in the event of a divorce I'm gonna be "hooyadii *%%*" no matter what. Even if I'm such a generous guy I'll still be "hooyadii #^^%" in her view so why should I be a stingy "hooyadii ^*%^^".

kkkk wlahi rageedi ba tahay. this reminds me a convo i had with a wealtjy friend of mine. hes kinda sting so i was telling him the concept of generosity and he was like "hadaad tidhaah waxba ma hayo waa garac bay ku odhanayaan, hadad mid wax yar siisona wuxu odhan garacu inta yar bu isiiyey. markaa garac wixiisa iska haysta maan iska noqdo"

 

[paramedic]

This is what I don't understand Walahi. A good friend of mine recently bought his fiancé ( now wife) a $5k diamond ring.

I pleaded with him to not do it. He was hell-bend on buying her that. I told home "the chance s of this relationship breaking a part is high. Don't d it ". He was like "me and Sagan are soulmates "

I dont get the appeal of jewelry. It's not worth the price assigned to it. Plus I'd be so stressed with a 5k ring, can you imagine losing it

It's really sweet of the guy to do that though, emphasizes the trust and love he has for her mA

 

[GodKnowsBest]

This is what I don't understand Walahi. A good friend of mine recently bought his fiancé ( now wife) a $5k diamond ring.

I pleaded with him to not do it. He was hell-bend on buying her that. I told home "the chance s of this relationship breaking a part is high. Don't d it ". He was like "me and Sagan are soulmates "

My husband is spending at least 10k on my ring. I have to wear that crap for life it better be pricy.

 

[--Ajakis Lax Max--]

did he break it off or she did? either way i would get my shit back

 

[The Cushitic One]

Insha'Allah I'm not fussed about a wedding but the ring better cost some
Serious money!

:siilaanyosmile:I will get it appraised also ain't no one going to fool me....

 

[paramedic]

My husband is spending at least 10k on my ring. I have to wear that crap for life it better be pricy.

who's forcing you to wear the ring?

I'd much rather get a $5 toy ring and $9,995

And 10k for a small rock?!?!? I'd much rather spend the money for a more fun honeymoon or smth

 

[--Ajakis Lax Max--]

Insha'Allah I'm not fussed about a wedding but the ring better cost some
Serious money!

:siilaanyosmile:I will get it appraised also ain't no one going to fool me....

so you want a nice honeymoon/expensive ring and meher and the house


would this suffice

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[The Cushitic One]

so you want a nice honeymoon/expensive ring and meher and the house


would this suffice

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I'm not one of these sell out Somalis gaalios.... that Apple will be lodged in You're throat mate!

Stingy xarah

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I've recently realized my female has a save full of gold. I stupidly didn't pay attention when her mom visited Dubai and then visited us and offloaded this gold. Apparently it's a Somali tradition where moms give dahab to daughters ( maybe I was suppose to do it and the poor islaan got tired of looking at me ).

Now this gold is for rainy days, if ever

Too many Hoyo's have used their dahabs to bail out their kids in Canada

 

[black]

No. Gifts are given without expectation or return. If you give something to someone expecting something in return, it's a sale, not a gift. Promises, especially unmade promises by the receiver of the gift that're actually more accurately in the form of an immaterial expectation by the giver, don't stand up in court. He got the Mexico money back precisely bc it was a loan.

I'm not arguing it's legality. Obviously the court decided the way it decided. It is not a gift, at least not in the traditional sense, hence the TV or handbag example. By definition it is given on the promise of marriage which she cancelled. Very classless thing to do