Garoobs are amazing guys need to appreciate them more they bring alot to the table

[so_wavey]

The thing with single mums are they are normally set they most likely have a council house they work they got their shit together all they need is a man to visit them and make them feel like a woman.

These are the kind of girls which make for perfect candidates for second wives and you can keep them hidden easier then a single one who will make noise etc.......

Garoobs most often then one will accept things that a single young girl wont some of them even are very young they just had a bad guy......

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Ayuuto ayuuto

 

[Mercury]

You sound like a a coward and an opportunist who would prey on single moms because they have a place and work and you believe they are desperate and are easier to hide from your wife

 

[Guardafui]

This is so sad to read.

 

[Xaruun]

The thing with single mums are they are normally set they most likely have a council house they work they got their shit together all they need is a man to visit them and make them feel like a woman.

These are the kind of girls which make for perfect candidates for second wives and you can keep them hidden easier then a single one who will make noise etc.......

Garoobs most often then one will accept things that a single young girl wont some of them even are very young they just had a bad guy......

Get rid of that self righteous Captain Save-a-ho mentality sxb. Garoobs don’t need you.

 

[so_wavey]

This is so sad to read.

yes but at least the garoob gets a husband and guur

 

[Abdisamad]

 

[so_wavey]

Get rid of that self righteous Captain Save-a-ho mentality sxb. Garoobs don’t need you.

garoobs need guur

 

[Angelina]

You're an actual degenerate.

You're really trying to change the institution of marriage into some cheap side chick sitution.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

A 15 year old lusting after garoobs ? And faraxs wonder why Xalimos turn them down?

 

[Mercury]

garoobs need guur

I can see through you your main objective is to exploit those women because they have a house and work you believe you dont to spend on them or provide an accommodation

 

[so_wavey]

I can see through you your main objective is to exploit those women because they have a house and work you believe you dont to spend on them or provide an accommodation

but you cant make them haram if the garoob is ok with it the guur is still allowed

 

[Mercury]

but you cant make them haram if the garoob is ok with it the guur is still allowed

I didn't say its haram but its a scumbag move to marry a single mum because she has a job and her own place and you only use her for sex

 

[so_wavey]

I didn't say its haram but its a scumbag move to marry a single mum because she has a job and her own place and you only use her for sex

You know you can marry for sex right? to prevent yourself form doing zina

So marrying a garrob who has her own house and having halal sex there is nothing wrong with that at all at least you marrying her you understand there are guys who dont even give her marriage status? and just use her with no title?

 

[Angelina]

You know you can marry for sex right? to prevent yourself form doing zina

So marrying a garrob who has her own house and having halal sex there is nothing wrong with that at all at least you marrying her you understand there are guys who dont even give her marriage status? and just use her with no title?

Islam has given women rights when it comes to marriage. Stop trying to change it into something sordid, when it is half our deen. Are you talking about a wife or what?

What you are talking about is misyr marriage which is controversial. Many scholars see it has haraam. It is a form of exploitation because the majority of women want a proper husband that looks after them and that is their God given right. Even more so in polygamy as it is haraam for you to marry if you cannot provide for all.

Ask yourself this. Would you be okay with your sister or daughter entering such an arrangement?

The problem with you I have noticed is that you have zero respect for women. If you had love for your fellow Muslim sisters, you wouldn't be encouraging this.

 

[so_wavey]

Islam has given women rights when it comes to marriage. Stop trying to change it into something sordid, when it is half our deen. Are you talking about a wife or what?

What you are talking about is misyr marriage which is controversial. Many scholars see it has haraam. It is a form of exploitation because the majority of women want a proper husband that looks after them.

Ask yourself this. Would you be okay with your sister or daughter entering such an arrangement?

The problem with you I have noticed is that you have zero respect for women. If you had love for your fellow Muslim sisters, you wouldn't be encouraging this.

there are scholars who say misyr marriage is allowed its basically a woman freely giving up some rights thats nothing wrong with that

Who are to control what anther woman wants? its her decision if she gives up rights maybe she does that with some wisdom

For example if a woman says to the man you dont have to provide for me i have a house (shes basically giving up he right) is that bad if she wants that?

You dont think a garoob would be happy to have a man? even if he doesnt provide

 

[Angelina]

there are scholars who say misyr marriage is allowed its basically a woman freely giving up some rights thats nothing wrong with that

Who are to control what anther woman wants? its her decision if she gives up rights maybe she does that with some wisdom

For example if a woman says to the man you dont have to provide for me i have a house (shes basically giving up he right) is that bad if she wants that?

You dont think a garoob would be happy to have a man? even if he doesnt provide

There is a reason why there is a lot of controversy surrounding it. Many scholars believe it is haraam and makrooh.

Answer with honesty. Would you be okay with your sister or daughter being treated this way?

 

[Mercury]

You know you can marry for sex right? to prevent yourself form doing zina

So marrying a garrob who has her own house and having halal sex there is nothing wrong with that at all at least you marrying her you understand there are guys who dont even give her marriage status? and just use her with no title?

this isn't your intention you wanna use single moms as a mistress under the guise of marriage

 

[so_wavey]

There is a reason why there is a lot of controversy surrounding it. Many scholars believe it is haraam and makrooh.

Answer with honesty. Would you be okay with your sister or daughter being treated this way?

What im saying is you cant speak for garoobs unless you are one and even if you are its just your opinion

Garoobs go through tough time its hard enough to find a decent guy being single let alone garoob so if she has her house and is financially ok and a man wants to marry her and shes happy who are you to say its bad? please answer this


Personally in a ideal world no but in life you cant always get what you want i would have to consider her situation

 

[Alluring]

Polygamy is not haram so why do “Muslim” men hide their other wives from each other like a gaalo hiding his mistress from his wife. It’s because you know they won’t accept it so you lie to the mother of your children to give you some sort of human decency when you’re literal scum and a deceiver who can’t hold his wife’s rights.