Gaabadho soo gaala. Help me mend my broken heart

[hamar_oo_iidil]

Sisters I'm a brother. And I am so in love with this one qalanjo that I'm physically sick most of the time and I cry very frequently. Its really sad. I get depressed thinking about the impossibility of our being together. I say m'Allah ofc but I still cannot rid myself of the bitter pain and sorrow I feel. I love her so dearly. To have her as my wife, the beautiful mother of my children would be all that I could ever ask for out of life.

My life has become one depressed heartbreak after another. When I was a young boy I went to primary school and there was this Somali girl I really liked. One day she never came to school and I ran home asking Hooyo what happened to heblaayo and Hooyo told me her parents broke up and she returned to Djibouti with her father. I was so sad and depressed, utterly heartbroken as a 7 year old I remember fasting an entire afternoon in protest to God. Now I find myself in a similar situation again. Except this time I cannot bare the heartbreak any longer.

 

[Taij4an]

Ngl once u marry u her u won't like her anymore anyway, ull get bored or her, realise she ain't a match for u, be stuck in a hopeless marriage, with kids, and be even more depressed.
My tip is too stop over idealising this woman, u are overexaggerating her in ur head
U literally have only seen her face, u are basically so horny that the first woman who u see as pretty u have an emotional attachment to them, it has got nothing to do with her, she could be a disgusting person for all you know.
Reduce ur horny levels and trust me you will see improvement

 

[hamar_oo_iidil]

Ngl once u marry u her u won't like her anymore anyway, ull get bored or her, realise she ain't a match for u, be stuck in a hopeless marriage, with kids, and be even more depressed.
My tip is too stop over idealising this woman, u are overexaggerating her in ur head
U literally have only seen her face, u are basically so horny that the first woman who u see as pretty u have an emotional attachment to them, it has got nothing to do with her, she could be a disgusting person for all you know.
Reduce ur horny levels and trust me you will see improvement

I'm not into her because of sex. She's just a really incredible human being. Also why speak so negatively of marriage. Marriage is a blessing and its life long commitment is what makes it beautiful. Let me believe in love. Marriage isn't hopeless even if half the world has made it so.

 

[Mac Sonkor]

I'm not into her because of sex. She's just a really incredible human being. Also why speak so negatively of marriage. Marriage is a blessing and its life long commitment is what makes it beautiful. Let me believe in love. Marriage isn't hopeless even if half the world has made it so.

Contact her family and ask for marriage

 

[Taij4an]

I'm not into her because of sex. She's just a really incredible human being. Also why speak so negatively of marriage. Marriage is a blessing and its life long commitment is what makes it beautiful. Let me believe in love. Marriage isn't hopeless even if half the world has made it so.

Yes it is
Also u don't know she is incredible
Tell me one thing u know about her other than she is pretty?

 

[Taij4an]

Marriage is a blessing and its life long commitment is what makes it beautiful.

Marriage is long and painful and takes away ur energy and free time and u have to sacrifice ur own enjoyment.
U r just horny thats why u think its good

 

[hamar_oo_iidil]

Yes it is
Also u don't know she is incredible
Tell me one thing u know about her other than she is pretty?

I know that she's a well educated wadanni who loves her daqan and people. And when I say she's beautiful/pretty. Its not physical appeal. She has beautiful eyes, virtually no makeup use. She wears flats not heels. She's a boqoraad for real and I love the karti she has

 

[hamar_oo_iidil]

Marriage is long and painful and takes away ur energy and free time and u have to sacrifice ur own enjoyment.
U r just horny thats why u think its good

Bro stop sexualising love. There is a difference between love and lust. You don't know me either. Stop telling me you know my body (hormones) better than I know them myself. Its not lust. Its love. Why can't you believe love is possible?

 

[hamar_oo_iidil]

I need more sisters to chime in @Basra @Hodan from HR @Sueeeeeee @Rocktheboat ...

 

[Taij4an]

I know that she's a well educated wadanni who loves her daqan and people

So u know nothing about her, u fell in love with a look, u have never talked to her, u don't even know her character, u r horny

 

[Taij4an]

Bro stop sexualising love. There is a difference between love and lust. You don't know me either. Stop telling me you know my body (hormones) better than I know them myself. Its not lust. Its love. Why can't you believe love is possible?

U can't fall in love in the first look, love is developed over time in a long span of relationship
What u have rn is just lust, tell me if she was unattractive would u still love her?

 

[Riya.]

The heart wants what the heart wants.

 

[Basra]

Sisters I'm a brother. And I am so in love with this one qalanjo that I'm physically sick most of the time and I cry very frequently. Its really sad. I get depressed thinking about the impossibility of our being together. I say m'Allah ofc but I still cannot rid myself of the bitter pain and sorrow I feel. I love her so dearly. To have her as my wife, the beautiful mother of my children would be all that I could ever ask for out of life.

My life has become one depressed heartbreak after another. When I was a young boy I went to primary school and there was this Somali girl I really liked. One day she never came to school and I ran home asking Hooyo what happened to heblaayo and Hooyo told me her parents broke up and she returned to Djibouti with her father. I was so sad and depressed, utterly heartbroken as a 7 year old I remember fasting an entire afternoon in protest to God. Now I find myself in a similar situation again. Except this time I cannot bare the heartbreak any longer.

I am sorry i can't participate in lesbian love advice or drama. No thank you. I do wish you a good day tho....

 

[Kane]

You were probably raised on a steady diet of Pajeet and Kumar, singing, dancing and chasing women through fields of flowers, in the hopes of some bob and vagene.

Listen brother you lack purpose and in attempting to fill that void, you have chosen this women you dreamt up to be your cause.

All these superlatives that you’re throwing around, are nothing but a case of her virtue signals mixing up with your googly eyed lust.

My advice?! before you go all Dr Love on somebody, learn to love yourself by investing your precious time in, building a system that benefit your life and any woman that enters it.

 

[Taij4an]

You were probably raised on a steady diet of Pajeet and Kumar, singing, dancing and chasing women through fields of flowers, in the hopes of some bob and vagene.

Listen brother you lack purpose and in attempting to fill that void, you have chosen this women you dreamt up to be your cause.

All these superlatives that you’re throwing around, are nothing but a case of her virtue signals mixing with up your googly eyed lust.

My advice?! before you go all Dr Love on somebody, learn to love yourself by investing your precious time in, building a system that benefit your life and any woman that enters it.

With all ur waffle in previous posts I agree with u on this one this brudda has too much free time he's latching on any kind of desire to give him some meaningful purpose in life for him to concentrate on, he's used this women and turned her into some kind of perfect end life goal

He needs a proper life goal which he idealises, and everything else will be put into perspective

Philippians 4:8 An Idle Mind Is the Devil’s Playground​

 

[Hodan from HR]

I need more sisters to chime in @Basra @Hodan from HR @Sueeeeeee @Rocktheboat ...

Mashallah walaal.
She is a lucky woman indeed

But remember, our Ilahi is a jealous God. Obsessing and thinking so much over one of his creations more than you do Him can be shirk. Unfortunately, some people will trigger these kinds of feelings in us. One thing that helps me anytime I'm crushing so hard on a guy is increasing my ibadah. I ask God to help me since we humans are liable to making irrational decisions once feelings are involved

 

[Kreeper]

With all ur waffle in previous posts I agree with u on this one this brudda has too much free time he's latching on any kind of desire to give him some meaningful purpose in life for him to concentrate on, he's used this women and turned her into some kind of perfect end life goal

He needs a proper life goal which he idealises, and everything else will be put into perspective

Philippians 4:8 An Idle Mind Is the Devil’s Playground​

Lecturing me on zina yesterday and quoting the bible today.

 

[Basra]

Mashallah walaal.
She is a lucky woman indeed

But remember, our Ilahi is a jealous God. Obsessing and thinking so much over one of his creations more than you do Him can be shirk. Unfortunately, some people will trigger these kinds of feelings in us. One thing that helps me anytime I'm crushing so hard on a guy is increasing my ibadah. I ask God to help me since we humans are liable to making irrational decisions once feelings are involved

Say Istaqfuruulaah huuno

 

[Indeed]

I need more sisters to chime in @Basra @Hodan from HR @Sueeeeeee @Rocktheboat ...

Why didn’t you not add the honourable lady @Angelina? Lmaoo

 

[Hodan from HR]

Say Istaqfuruulaah huuno

Loool, read my post again.

I basically adviced to ask help from our Creator to help with these kind of feelings