Because I believe that a dumb, foolish DM with no depth made her wanna let him cuff her? LOOOL. Ok, boomer.
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.
Fakhruddin Razi an 11th century famous theologian whilst followed by an army of exuberant students of his through a rough rugged desert came across an old lady confounded by all the commotion.
One of the students at the back of the queue remarked to her "don't you know who this man is? he is the famous Imam Razi who wrote a book presenting 70 proof's for the existence of God"
The old lady was stunned by this and responded back with "
he wouldn't need 70 proof's if he didn't have 70 doubts"
When Imam Razi was told about this, he was astonished, his response to his students was simple and direct; if they wanted to see and experience the manifestation of real iman, it's to be found with that old lady in the desert.
Complexity is the enemy of execution, while simplicity is the key to happiness and brilliance, the greatest threat to your progress are you crazed insatiable expectations.
The poor dude doesn't even know if you qualify beyond just your appearance, but you are already stomping the ground asking for 'depth' and for him to go out of his way to lay the gauntlet down to you.
This is a suicidal self destructive approach that will only backfire in the short and long run, both time and present circumstances attest to this.
Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, simple living is part of faith, simple living is part of faith.”
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4161
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Make things easy for the people, and do not make it difficult for them, and make them calm (with glad tidings) and do not repulse (them )
Sahih al-Bukhari 6125