Fobs are where it is at

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In somalia u wil never get a job 🤣🤣.
That us why for me i intial started architecture first semester i hated it i changed to civil engineering and it was boring🤣🤣.
I have no option becos in somalia engineering will is most required field not other stufs
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
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In somalia u wil never get a job 🤣🤣.
That us why for me i intial started architecture first semester i hated it i changed to civil engineering and it was boring🤣🤣.
I have no option becos in somalia engineering will is most required field not other stufs
Are you in Somalia?
 
Young Fobs who have been here at least 5 years are the sweet spot. There are active quite a lot of good looking fobs 👀

my future husband will probably not be hoyo mataalo like me
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Semi-fobs (came between their teen years and early adulthood) are where it’s at. I cringe when I see western Xalimos now (not all of them) and I don’t relate at all with full fobs.

I understand the appeal sister, it’s the way they still keep their deen close to their heart and have a connection to their roots while still being adapted enough to western life that I don’t need to accommodate everything for them.

When it comes to the women there’s an over abundance of them too due to the semi-fob men going back home to get married in droves and the semi-fob females being less willing to do that, so they’re stuck with us western Faaraxs. I’m gunning for the miskeen semi-fob Xalimo, that’s my perfect type.
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
VIP
Semi-fobs (came between their teen years and early adulthood) are where it’s at. I cringe when I see western Xalimos now (not all of them) and I don’t relate at all with full fobs.

I understand the appeal sister, it’s the way they still keep their deen close to their heart and have a connection to their roots while still being adapted enough to western life that I don’t need to accommodate everything for them.

When it comes to the women there’s an over abundance of them too due to the semi-fob men going back home to get married in droves and the semi-fob females being less willing to do that, so they’re stuck with us western Faaraxs. I’m gunning for the miskeen semi-fob Xalimo, that’s my perfect type.
How do semi fob guys feel about qurbo girls? I feel like they like us but don’t get reciprocated much. I had one tell me he wasn’t expecting me to be interested since we ( western xalimos) dont like/make fun of fobs.
 
How do semi fob guys feel about qurbo girls? I feel like they like us but don’t get reciprocated much. I had one tell me he wasn’t expecting me to be interested since we ( western xalimos) dont like/make fun of fobs.
From what I can tell, they wouldn’t mind the option of western Xalimos if they weren’t high maintenance, you’re usually seen as having high standards and looking down on male fobs/freshies as inferior, plus the whole feminism thing with them is a big no no.

If you act miskeen and seem interested in getting to know a semi-fob guy he’ll be interested, be patience with your differences. I’ve seen it work myself, but the women was usually interested in getting to know her Dhaqan and was usually religious.
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
VIP
From what I can tell, they wouldn’t mind the option of western Xalimos if they weren’t high maintenance, you’re usually seen as having high standards and looking down on male fobs/freshies as inferior, plus the whole feminism thing with them is a big no no.

If you act miskeen and seem interested in getting to know a semi-fob guy he’ll be interested, be patience with your differences. I’ve seen it work myself, but the women was usually interested in getting to know her Dhaqan and was usually religious.
Depends on what high maintenance means no? I’m sure a fob guy with a degree, would be able to afford the average educated western xalimo. Is there something else that I am missing? It’s not like we are asking for anything more than they can afford.
 
Depends on what high maintenance means no? I’m sure a fob guy with a degree, would be able to afford the average educated western xalimo. Is there something else that I am missing? It’s not like we are asking for anything more than they can afford.
It depends how you approach him. If you come with a list of demands then that scares most guys tbh, but if you find out more about them behind the scenes and praise him for what he does have then that’s a different story.

It’s about how you do things mostly, so a fob with a degree wouldn’t mind a women who wants a man with one as long as she’s appreciative, it’s important to remember that these fobs could get much more attention and appreciation if they go back home so you’re competing with that, essentially women with lower standards and potentially attitudes that fobs like more.
 

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