FOB or Say Wallah?

[Odious Delirium]

I would opt for someone brought up back home, with a few exceptions. The grit alone, not to mention resilience. Second place, the 'ya halla' crowd.

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@Odious Delirium
Are you all right, mate? Not trying to communicate a message from behind the shroud, are you, re new name?

Personally for myself I don't mind a say wallahi or a fob best is in-between tho. The fob or say wallahi aspect isn't even something I really care about but for those that do it depends on what they are themselves and overall its easier for a guy to with a fob and potentially preferable then a woman with a fob but that also varies based on the fob themselves. Are they the westernerised wannabe fobs or not? Plus she's a self proclaimed feminist so she might not get on well with a the average fob but a western liberal say wallahi probably would gel better with her lifestyle

Yeah I'm alright why what happened?

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Personally for myself I don't mind a say wallahi or a fob best is in-between tho. The fob or say wallahi aspect isn't even something I really care about but for those that do it depends on what they are themselves and overall its easier for a guy to with a fob and potentially preferable then a woman with a fob but that also varies based on the fob themselves. Are they the westernerised wannabe fobs or not? Plus she's a self proclaimed feminist so she might not get on well with a the average fob but a western liberal say wallahi probably would gel better with her lifestyle

Yes, there is something about the fibre of those brought up back home, or in Muslim countries, which I admire. From what I have observed, granted my interactions with Xalimas is very limited, [most] first generation are no different from any Western lass.

Yeah I'm alright why what happened?

Oh just reflecting on your choice of new name: Odious Delirium:
"Extremely unpleasant deserving hate" coupled with "A medical mental disorder of being confused, and lacking awareness".

 

[Nura Osman]

Did you post in reddit?

yeah I did

 

[Nura Osman]

Imagine a "Say Wallahi" married a Fob.

It happens all the time

 

[Ozymandias]

yeah I did

Ala yaheehay are we the true caricatures of chronically online?

 

[Nura Osman]

Been on both sides equally and blends into both

Lucky you

 

[Odious Delirium]

Oh just reflecting on your choice of new name: Odious Delirium:
"Extremely unpleasant deserving hate" coupled with "A medical mental disorder of being confused, and lacking awareness".

Don't worry I'm not bitter or crazy lol very much the opposite.

I have just been reading the stormlight archives.

I just decided to change my user name and that came to mind not much thought behind the name

 

[Ozymandias]

Don't worry I'm not bitter or crazy lol very much the opposite.

I have just been reading the stormlight archives.

I just decided to change my user name and that came to mind

Cadeynta I sheegaya inaad waalantahay waxaa waaye indhahahaaga mooryaan o kale u eg, iyo candhuufta ka dareeriyah uff!

 

[Bari🐍]

Sad thing is many of the western Somali boys and girls are not fluent in Somali. Your kid will not be able to speak his mother tongue if it's not spoken around the house.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Cadeynta I sheegaya inaad waalantahay waxaa waaye indhahahaaga mooryaan o kale u eg, iyo candhuufta ka dareeriyah uff!

Bruh what you waffling about I don't got crazy mooryaan eyes of a khad addict and neither do I walk around with drool hanging from my mouth

 

[Yaraye]

Sad thing is many of the western Somali boys and girls are not fluent in Somali. Your kid will not be able to speak his mother tongue if it's not spoken around the house.

that's a lie. There are many us western somalis who are quite fluent in the language

 

[Ozymandias]

that's a lie. There are many us western somalis who are quite fluent in the language

Exactly, I've never stepped a foot in somalia

 

[Yaraye]

Exactly, I've never stepped a foot in somalia

me too! And i got elders asking if I'm a fob

 

[LEThimCOOK]

Are you that man?

I listen to Somali music, what does that make me?

 

[Nura Osman]

I listen to Somali music, what does that make me?

mee too

 

[hamar_oo_iidil]

Which one do you think is better to marry a FOB or a Say Wallah? I am a first-generation Somali just for context, I was born and raised outside of somalia.

Say wallahis wallahi. FOBs are overrated. If you were born outside Somalia that relationship will come with a lot of misunderstandings. Best you marry a lady you've grown up in similar circumstances and understand your environment. Also before anything else make sure you got your money in order and you have that great physique that women love

 

[mrlog]

Are you that man?

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