Thats a bad thing.....mind games will push people away. I will make an effort, but if I am not getting the same energy back. I aint wasting time. Why cant you make effort or make me feel special?I like to get them to show me they are worth it and that they are really into me. Never make them feel they are secure with me or that I am really into them. I mean a girl can change her mind right?
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Haye kaftanI like to get them to show me they are worth it and that they are really into me. Never make them feel they are secure with me or that I am really into them. I mean a girl can change her mind right?
How successful have u been
I do once i feel like he is serious and decent guy.
And the trick is whilst playing hard to get, you can't always be aloof and expect him to chase you, sometimes you lure him in and make him feel special. That results in him chasing you even harder. The more unpredictable you are the better.
Most men don't like to admit it, but they love a good chase.
true....a chase has to have a goal line. If I cant see a finishing line or feel im getting through I would feel like a stalker lol. Btw were you not gonna marry a non somali or am I mixing you with someone else?
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Girl some men only like the game.once they get you the real them comes out same with some women.I like to get them to show me they are worth it and that they are really into me. Never make them feel they are secure with me or that I am really into them. I mean a girl can change her mind right?
But i have my limits, once I realise he is a good guy who is very serious, i tone it down.
I wasn't going to marry him, i was merely interested in him and he was very interested in me.
I imagined a life not married to a Faraax and it made me shudder.
So you are back
good lol...we almost lost a good one guys lol
Good to hear.The truth of the matter is that I am too racist to be with a non Somali
I knew it wasnt going to work
You should have stuck around she would probably be worth it
Imagine a life in which i couldn't banter with my man in Somali?
A life in which I felt like an extra terrestrial alien when i'm around my in-laws??
Weird customs and expectation??
In my head, i was like nope and nope.
The point is that i feel at home with Abdis.
Maybe....tbh I wasnt fully ready either to settle down.
Same thing with me. Naag ajanabi oo markaa .ku kaftamo af somali. She feela like your mocking her.Imagine a life in which i couldn't banter with my man in Somali?
A life in which I felt like an extra terrestrial alien when i'm around my in-laws??
Weird customs and expectation??
In my head, i was like nope and nope.
The point is that i feel at home with Abdis.
yeah and if you ever get divorced, atleast your kids will be in somali hands......and not raised by people with completely different culture
some xalimos only get married to move out and have their own place
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True.
Help them but I think something that one should keep in mind is you can’t determine by what year you’re gonna get married it’s all written when you’re gonna die and when you’re gonna get married
One thing that you can change is the person you’re getting to know if that person can’t be 100 honest and upfront all the time from the get go it’s better to go separate ways otherwise once you start living with the person they will slowly show their true face
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Absolutely, It's predestined by Allah. Crazy how we stress ourselves thinking that we're in control at all times when it is Allah who's in control.
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