Make an effort. I love speaking to somali women in person. By Somali women i mean one who can speak proper af somali. Best feeling there is shukaansi
Finding the one
- Thread starter Halimo-2018
- Start date
- Status
What’s wrong with him exactly? Something you couldn’t see in the year you’ve been talking?
One problem women I know have is they read so much negativity about guys when they meet guys, they look for flaws. People have way too high expectations and dont give people time to get o know them. There doesnt have to be strong connection in first date, sometimes it takes time for people to get to know each other and show their true face.
Halimo-2018
VIP
Some hide their true face. Humans are complicated. Go with your guts dont listen to what people say.
most of us dont know that dhaqan though. I aint got time to play the games somalis play when courting each other. I am direct and have little patience
Somali dhaqan is the most straight foward. Your parents knew each other for less than a month before the got married.
Somali shukansi is quick and direct. Not like the western culture
Last xalimo I dealt with was proper somali and she annoyed the hell out of me, too much games. I was like so you talking to other guys and she said dumarka boqol nin bay la sheekestan hal bee doorata. What is this hindi movie courting nonsense
Halimo-2018
VIP
you could have been the only one she talks to lol
I probably was......but her inability to never answer question drove me mad. Like why are you trying to mental fvck me and keep me on my toes. This went on for months. I was like naaah I dont have the patience for this and we went separate way.
That is usually the case. Our dhaqan is that the girl has to play hard. Not easy like the case here.
Our girls have sharaf and dignity and deserve to be fought over. He missed a queen. Unfortunate
I know people with Muzmatch, apparently there are lots of Somali guys on there and I mean lots. Most of the Somali girls just speak to Somali guys.
Walal the world has changed, for the better or worse i'm not sure. But meeting people online is the norm now. However, i don't think it takes away from courting normally as once you meet online you still have to meet and go through the processes that people who meet in real life first go through.
After that u should have made xuuja. Its either now or never. She would have came through
Cool you understand my point. It would have been better if they went thru the dhaqan. Its good if they talk with somali guys and that isnt a problem.
Somali men for somali women baan jeclanlah. And by your info it seems that way.
They are still missing out
Loool , if you were really into her and I mean proper into her you would have had no problem pursuing her. Usually men like the chase if they think a girl is worth it.
I agree with @Suldaanka for once, looks like you missed out on a queen.
Same, Somali men for Somali women. I don't know, but i've noticed that it is becoming harder and harder to meet people for marriage. A lot of people have that complaint.
The problems with apps is that is is all very robotic and not organic in the begining. Apps also give people the delusion they have a lot of options and will just swipe left for people they might have given a chance to in real life.
Ideally, people don't want to meet through instagram and apps. But men aren't as confident to shoot their shot in real life and people have become addicted to social media.
However, a good thing is that you meet people from different parts of the world. I've seen Somali Americans marry british ect and Canadans with British through Social media. I mean thats one positive I suppose.
naaah she missed out on a king. There is only so much chasing one can do......Im not a dog, there is only so many times you gonna throw the ball and me chasing, eventually I will say you get the ball.
Loool, how extreme was she?
I like to get guys to chase me, but I have my limits. Common sense goes a long way I suppose.
Wrong sxb. A queen is to die for. The older generation would tell you that. My father taught
Elaborate
I like to get them to show me they are worth it and that they are really into me. Never make them feel they are secure with me or that I am really into them. I mean a girl can change her mind right?
But i have my limits, once I realise he is a good guy who is very serious, i tone it down.
- Status
