Eh, I guess we just have a difference of outlook then. I think the psychological impact varies on an individual basis (although all cases are still unethical); even within the girl vs. guy category-- not all girls are wired the same, and not all boys are wired the same.
One question though...
If you think boys, on avg, are psychologically better equipped to handle teacher-student relationships: what do you make of male teacher-male student relationship (if they are "mutually attracted")?? Is that rape/predatory..or nah?
