Eh, I guess we just have a difference of outlook then. I think the psychological impact varies on an individual basis (although all cases are still unethical); even within the girl vs. guy category-- not all girls are wired the same, and not all boys are wired the same.Men and women are just wired differently. Dont understand why is it so hard to for some to comprehend.
The psychological impact a boy could have from a teacher-student relationship is completely different from a girl.
One question though...
If you think boys, on avg, are psychologically better equipped to handle teacher-student relationships: what do you make of male teacher-male student relationship (if they are "mutually attracted")?? Is that rape/predatory..or nah?