Feeling like a stranger in my own home

[Calmone20]

I feel like a stranger in my family home which I pay my rent for. My mother and twin brother constantly insult me and put me down. My mother also always starts problems with me over the tiniest things. I feel more at home when I am staying at my cousin's house.

 

[Siddhartha]

Easy fix... move out

 

[Calmone20]

Easy fix... move out

It is difficult to move out cause rent is expensive. I live in london uk.

 

[Siddhartha]

It is difficult to move out cause rent is expensive. I live in london uk.

So do i

 

[J-Rasta]

Just live by yourself , it will reward you once you move out , you won't have to keep up with all these negativities weighing you down , remember you are young and you just carry your weight on your shoulders not the burden of others , if this is too much , what is stopping you from looking for a space , actually they would miss your non presence over the time and keep asking about you.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Move out. I am sure you can find a room to rent for 400-500 pounds a month somewhere.

 

[Basra]

So do i

 

[KobeBryant]

Move out

 

[Ozworld]

Kick your brother out let him provide for himself he is the same age as you. but just accept hooyo and her criticism, cus hooyo is hooyo.

 

[mrlog]

@Calmone20 meet @SOULSEARCHING
both used and abused at home by narcissistic family members.
he got means to pay rent, she’s a good cook.
Win Win situation
invite me to the weeding
but not @Basra buuq badan

 

[Amal Hassan]

Kick your brother out let him provide for himself he is the same age as you. but just accept hooyo and her criticism, cus hooyo is hooyo.

A Somali mum kicking her son out I would say firm it and work hard until you are financially set

 

[TekNiKo]

Kick them both out since you pay rent

 

[Hali]

Guriga quraan ka daar

 

[vanilla]

Best way is just not to react and live your life to the max... do them right and get your good deeds.... i always live by the quote 'If you don't like something, change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

 

[TheSayid]

getting insulted by your twin thats tough

 

[Calmone20]

@Calmone20 meet @SOULSEARCHING
both used and abused at home by narcissistic family members.
he got means to pay rent, she’s a good cook.
Win Win situation
invite me to the weeding
but not @Basra buuq badan

I am female

 

[mrlog]

I am female

say walaahi, why are we getting male vibes
pls record your voice to prove u are female
Otherwise

 

[pirater]

I am female

why are you paying rent then? the hell

I thought your hooyo would make your brother pay rent