Feeling hopeless and I don’t know where to go

[Yaraye]

This whole order is very embarrassing, because I never thought that as a damn grown adult I'd be trapped here and not be allowed to return to England.

You need to secretly look for your passport. Its very important that you get ahold of it.

 

[CALMONE20###]

Do you have friends in UK that are willing to help?

I have no friends

 

[Internet Nomad]

They insult me for being diaspora,for my fashion sense and also because I decided to trust them and open up to them about my family problems.

These people are fobs they dont know anything about fashion

 

[CALMONE20###]

You need to secretly look for your passport

I have my passport

 

[Yaraye]

I have my passport

How much is a ticket from where you are to UK?

 

[CALMONE20###]

How much is a ticket from where you are to UK?

It depends on the time of the flight.

 

[Yaraye]

It depends on the time of the flight.

what's the range?

 

[CALMONE20###]

These people are fobs they dont know anything about fashion

I was called a dhil0 for going to an aroos without a hijab and wearing high heels

 

[CALMONE20###]

what's the range?

Idk but I will check

 

[Halimo-2018]

I'm staying at my aunt's house and my cousins are being very mean towards me. I have no where to go. If I were to leave that house,ofc there are no shelters. I really want to leave to the UK,but my mother told me I'm never coming back. I wanna be hopeful and I don't wanna give up,but I'm losing my will to live and I feel like suicide would be easier.

Be kind to you . Don’t give up on life because of shitty people. Call someone talk it out. Try to move out even if the shelters help seek them out. Remember what you wanted out of life before you met them and do that. That’s what’s going to make you happy. The world is full of idiot however you can still manage to live a fulfilling healthy life regardless because Allah is in charge whatever evil intentions they have for you it won’t happen unless Allah allows it be fierce live life. As for these toxic cousins of yours work on reducing their involvement in your life by working on moving away from where they live and not letting them know the full details of what going on in your life you can do all this without being rude unless they are blatantly rude then put them in their place. Work on maintaining your peace no matter what.

 

[Yaraye]

Idk but I will check

make sure to check. Is there any jobs where you are that you can do for money?

 

[Internet Nomad]

I was called a dhil0 for going to an aroos without a hijab and wearing high heels

Allah Most High says,

Those who slander chaste secured, and believing women are cursed in this life and in the hereafter: for them is a grievous chastisement. On the day when their tongues, their hands, and their feet will bear witness against them as to their as to their actions. (Nur: 23-24)

He also says,

And those who launch a charge against chaste women and produce not four witnesses (to support their allegations) flog them with eighty stripes: and reject their evidence ever after: for such men are wicked transgressors. (Nur: 4)

Don't worry these people will punished in the hereafter for their actions

 

[CALMONE20###]

Be kind to you . Don’t give up on life because of shitty people. Call someone talk it out. Try to move out even if the shelters help seek them out. Remember what you wanted out of life before you met them and do that. That’s what’s going to make you happy. The world is full of idiot however you can still manage to live a fully healthy life regardless because Allah is in charge whatever evil intentions they have for you it won’t happen unless Allah allows it be fierce live life. As for these toxic cousins of yours work on reducing their involvement in your life by working on moving away from where they live and not letting them know the full details of what going on in your life you can do all this without being rude unless they are blatantly rude then put them in their place. Work on maintaining your peace no matter what.

I know sis but its so difficult. It would be easier if I had a friend or a family member that isn't judgemental or unkind.

 

[CALMONE20###]

make sure to check. Is there any jobs where you are that you can do for money?

Well I recently was teaching poor kids grammar in their homes. But their parents told me that their kids will be starting school,so I no longer work in that job. Other than that ,there is no virtually zero employment.

 

[Yaraye]

Well I recently was teaching poor kids grammar in their homes. But their parents told me that their kids will be starting school,so I no longer work in that job. Other than that ,there is no virtually zero employment.

Find a talent, use it and charge money.You know english right? teach english, charge money.

 

[CALMONE20###]

Find a talent, use it and charge money.You know english right? teach english, charge money.

Yes,but here's the thing: I have been searching for that kinda job again and the kids in this neighbourhood are already starting school or their parents say there's no need for tutoring.

 

[Yaraye]

Yes,but here's the thing: I have been searching for that kinda job again and the kids in this neighbourhood are already starting school or their parents say there's no need for tutoring.

you got any other talent/ knowledge?

 

[CALMONE20###]

you got any other talent/ knowledge?

No,english is my forte

 

[Richard Pearson]

Why did you agree to even go there in the first place?

 

[Kalsoon]

They insult me for being diaspora,for my fashion sense and also because I decided to trust them and open up to them about my family problems.

Some people like to know their words have the power to affect your mood and ruin your day. Don’t give them that satisfaction. Don’t let them get you down..They must have nothing going for them to talk about you like that.

You can try to act oblivious to their behavior and focus all your attention on things that will improve your well-being. Maybe when they see you don’t care about them, they’ll focus on something else. Read athkar whenever they’re around you too.