Fatherless kids and step father. Ashy abdis! Assemble!!!

[AliUK]

Speaking of this, Walahi I witnessed a crazy situation this weekend

This distant relative of mine came to town, he is a truck driver. Dude called me and said he wanted me to pick him up. The guy asked me to take him to his ex wife’s home so he can retrieve his child to spend time with him (he doesn’t live here). Dude told me that ex is away and she allowed him to pick his kids up. We got there and I went inside with him because I know the chick when went inside I was greeting the children and I casually said “who’s with you guys “ and little girl replied “apti Ali. He is sleeping upstairs “ The mother ain’t married

What did the dad do?

 

[Gooney112]

@Gooney112

This is a relieve for me to talk about it because it pains me.

I don’t know why I end up conversing with married women on the verge of divorce but it is usually the case that I come upon a wounded female. It just shows that we have a lot troubled marriages and a lot of divorced.

I see them with little child/children and my interest peeks incredibly high. Then I operate so smoothly by conversing with her. Next thing is I’d hit her with “what’s your status “ and she’d say “I’m I’m I’m separated “ (they are not divorced ). At this point I’m jumping around in enjoy in my head. Then I’ll say (to go to statement ) “Ma kula koriyaa caruurta” Then I almost always end up with her phone number. Then the calling begins where I lend her my ears. She’d tell me how horrible he was. I would validate her points by plummeting that faarax I then tell her that I’m buying her grocery from the goodness of my heart. I’d tell her to send me her grocery list. Before you even know I’m invited into the house

Shaydaan ba tahay lool. Be careful of karma. You are playing with fire wallahi.....one of the ex husbands will get you one day. And you say caruurta aan kula korinaya

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

What did the dad do?

Honestly! He just picked up his kids and was out with them all day. I just dropped him. I left him in the house and he called another friend to pick him. He was gonna rent a car but the returning the car time conflicted with his departure. So he was relaying on us to drive him around. I didn’t mind doing it runtii. I was just shocked that the dude nonchalantly chilled with his kids while his ex-bedroom bully was sleeping upstairs

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Shaydaan ba tahay lool. Be careful of karma. You are playing with fire wallahi.....one of the ex husbands will get you one day. And you say caruurta aan kula korinaya

That’s why I have a licensed Berreta M9 with me. I have 2 one in my car and one in my home. My 2nd amendment is important to me.

I really feel bad tho, I do. I kind of have a fetish about I guess. Just knowing that 3 kids came out of their for another man and now I’m dwelling drives me wild

 

[Gooney112]

That’s why I have a licensed Berreta M9 with me. I have 2 one in my car and one in my home. My 2nd amendment is important to me.

I really feel bad tho, I do. I kind of have a fetish about I guess. Just knowing that 3 kids came out of their for another man and now I’m dwelling drives me wild

thats messed up....I cant deal with women who has kids myself. Once they are divorced, their standard drops and they are looking for someone to help them raise their kids. Fvck that

 

[Mohamed Saeed]

Since when did somalis start cheating and dating?

 

[jamal9]

male zebra killing a baby zebra who is not its offspring.

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[Mercury]

If the father is a deadbeat then it’s not the child’s fault. Raise them as your own.


What I don’t understand is single mothers marrying bums, and spending the child support money they receive from the ex husband on the bum she recently married. How are you going to give this bum the money intended for your children.

I think what happens is once divorced they’re standards have dropped and their guard as well to the point they will settle with any bum that comes their way

 

[Gooney112]

I think what happens is once divorced they’re standards have dropped and their guard as well to the point they will settle with any bum that comes their way

More like they are free and can have casual relationship while ceerta support them. Single mothers love guys like r kelly . he is fun, dont demand anything except sex and they can live their lives as bums without being judged or pressure

 

[Mercury]

More like they are free and can have casual relationship while ceerta support them. Single mothers love guys like r kelly . he is fun, dont demand anything except sex and they can live their lives as bums without being judged or pressure

I don’t see how someone could have a casual relationship when they have kids you should either get remarried or stay single

 

[Pastoralite]

male zebra killing a baby zebra who is not its offspring.

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thats what i call alpha

 

[Omar del Sur]

Man I don't ever want to be with a single mother.....

why is she not with her husband?

How am I going to trust her ability to make reasonable decisions?

I think the whole concept is a headache. I don't want a headache.

 

[Oortcloud]

Man I don't ever want to be with a single mother.....

why is she not with her husband?

How am I going to trust her ability to make reasonable decisions?

I think the whole concept is a headache. I don't want a headache.

They are good only for sex you nut and leave

 

[GoldmanSachs]

if you guys consider step fathers as simps. Then who do y’all expect to raise children in fatherless households .
Y’all bash single mothers for raising kids that end up thugs.
So it’s confusing seeing stepfather slander here.
It’s like you want children to be raised without a father figure

@CaliTedesse @Pastoralite @Pureblood @AliUK @Geeljire sanbuur @Geeljire lotus


If you want to marry someone with no kids than do that. Nothing wrong with that. There are some dudes that don’t really care about that issue.I am just curious on why step fathers are getting slandered for being father figure for kids that have deadbeat dads.

Are you a believer in personal responsibility? Do you believe women have agency and are independent people with their own thoughts and choices to make?


If you answer "Yes" to both questions, then the dilemma is very simple. Bad choices have consequences

 

[Omar del Sur]

They are good only for sex you nut and leave

There is nothing good about zina.

 

[AliUK]

Honestly! He just picked up his kids and was out with them all day. I just dropped him. I left him in the house and he called another friend to pick him. He was gonna rent a car but the returning the car time conflicted with his departure. So he was relaying on us to drive him around. I didn’t mind doing it runtii. I was just shocked that the dude nonchalantly chilled with his kids while his ex-bedroom bully was sleeping upstairs

His ex wife is unmarried and bringing men to her house with kids still there and he did nothing.