That depends.
I'm doing pretty well for myself, and when I get married I'll prob make 6 figures.
So option 1:
I'm the sole breadwinner. I pay all the bills, take the family out, take care of my and your family, etc. Gift giving, all that jazz.
In this case, I want a housewife. I'm not into trophy wives and having a maid, that seems to be a disastrous arrangement.
Option 2:
We both work. 50-50 everything. I can cook and clean well, and love kids anyway.
I prefer option 2, because if I have daughters, I want them to be inspired by their hooyo. Also, both of us being successful probably means superior intelligence. Which means we give an advantage to the kids.
So I guess:
Smart
Hardworking
Kind
Fair
Loving
Beautiful
That's what I need.