I don't think men care about looks as much as women, I mean that is rather feminine right? In most groups, the women tend to look better, that is just how Allah created men and women, therefore that isn't something genders can compete on in a general scale.
However, correct me if i'm wrong but men still want to be seen as desirable?
@Chase @Abdisamad and others.
Real question guys. Why do the men on this forum celebrate when an ajnabi girl gets with or praises a Farax? Is it a celebration that other's recognize the desirability of Somali men? Now you have accounts like that guy who gets with Columbian women ect and he and his commentators celebrate it like it is this big win.
I know why women might get gassed as that is a confirmation of their beauty, but what about men?
Lack of self-esteem, both Somali girls and boys copped it growing up, it doesn't surprise me anymore. I guess people just want to be reaffirmed that they are desirable/wanted, tbf this goes for all races & ethnic groups.
