Bro, I'm so tired of this. Who a women marries is the concern of her family and if her father gave her away then what right does anyone have to talk?
Either her father made a horrible choice, isn't religious himself or she got married without his notice. In all cases its not my problem.
This women is going to have to integrate herself into the husbands community as that's how it goes, she doesn't really need to have to be associated with the Somali community nor does her children, that comes from the fathers side and that's his responsilbity.