eloping, is it halal?

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  1. jamal9

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    Dad wont let me marry her daughter as he wants her to get a PhD first. I know she wants me and is scared she might miss the chance of a lifetime if I decide to go with another girl. She thinks we should elope and after 3 days come back and tell her dad that we got married secretly (a big lie). After that, her dad will have no choice but to offer her to me.
    I feel it is haram thing to do and it is not a good way to start a marriage.
    Have you or someone you know eloped with a girl? What happened after 5 yrs of marriage?
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  2. saredochani10

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    Your girl has read too many novels.

    Also what kind of question is that ? If I eloped I would change name and face. My parents would hunt us down.

    Stop joking :icon lol:.
     
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  3. Dino

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    Unless you want to fuck your life over don't do it
     
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  4. riyaale

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    It's the norm in Mogadishu to elope they called it masafa or wuu mahar xaday. So yeah take her to xamar and do it there.
     
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  5. kickz

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    If the parent is being unreasonable and you live in the West, marry her anyways.
     
  6. MoeMoney

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    No women is worth the trouble of secretly marrying. And a girl who goes against her father wishes might not be the best person for you.
     
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  7. jamal9

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    ok lets elope together, I'll help u to change ur face :cool:
    my babe reads 3 novels per week.
     
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  8. HalimaJ

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    No
     
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  9. saredochani10

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    Nobody wants to destroy their lives lol. Keep things halal. Good luck.
     
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  10. sophisticate

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    I would advise against it.
     
  11. Basra

    Basra Like Donald Trump, I like to be Spanked. Let Them Eat Cake VIP

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