eloping, is it halal?

[jamal9]

Dad wont let me marry her daughter as he wants her to get a PhD first. I know she wants me and is scared she might miss the chance of a lifetime if I decide to go with another girl. She thinks we should elope and after 3 days come back and tell her dad that we got married secretly (a big lie). After that, her dad will have no choice but to offer her to me.
I feel it is haram thing to do and it is not a good way to start a marriage.
Have you or someone you know eloped with a girl? What happened after 5 yrs of marriage?
.

 

[saredochani10]

Your girl has read too many novels.

Also what kind of question is that ? If I eloped I would change name and face. My parents would hunt us down.

Stop joking .

 

[Dino]

Unless you want to f*ck your life over don't do it

 

[riyaale]

Dad wont let me marry her daughter as he wants her to get a PhD first. I know she wants me and is scared she might miss the chance of a lifetime if I decide to go with another girl. She thinks we should elope and after 3 days come back and tell her dad that we got married secretly (a big lie). After that, her dad will have no choice but to offer her to me.
I feel it is haram thing to do and it is not a good way to start a marriage.
Have you or someone you know eloped with a girl? What happened after 5 yrs of marriage?
.

It's the norm in Mogadishu to elope they called it masafa or wuu mahar xaday. So yeah take her to xamar and do it there.

 

[kickz]

If the parent is being unreasonable and you live in the West, marry her anyways.

 

[Louis Vuitton Don]

Dad wont let me marry her daughter as he wants her to get a PhD first. I know she wants me and is scared she might miss the chance of a lifetime if I decide to go with another girl. She thinks we should elope and after 3 days come back and tell her dad that we got married secretly (a big lie). After that, her dad will have no choice but to offer her to me.
I feel it is haram thing to do and it is not a good way to start a marriage.
Have you or someone you know eloped with a girl? What happened after 5 yrs of marriage?
.

No women is worth the trouble of secretly marrying. And a girl who goes against her father wishes might not be the best person for you.

 

[jamal9]

Your girl has read too many novels.

Also what kind of question is that ? If I eloped I would change name and face. My parents would hunt us down.

Stop joking .

ok lets elope together, I'll help u to change ur face
my babe reads 3 novels per week.

 

[HalimaJ]

No

 

[saredochani10]

ok lets elope together, I'll help u to change ur face
my babe reads 3 novels per week.

Nobody wants to destroy their lives lol. Keep things halal. Good luck.

 

[Sophisticate]

I would advise against it.

 

[Basra]

Dad wont let me marry her daughter as he wants her to get a PhD first. I know she wants me and is scared she might miss the chance of a lifetime if I decide to go with another girl. She thinks we should elope and after 3 days come back and tell her dad that we got married secretly (a big lie). After that, her dad will have no choice but to offer her to me.
I feel it is haram thing to do and it is not a good way to start a marriage.
Have you or someone you know eloped with a girl? What happened after 5 yrs of marriage?
.