No doubt, a man has to live in a better way. Yet, living with a woman who has reached such contempt for him is worse. He has a woman who detests his very essence, which some here naively think is motivated by agitation for weed and gaming.
She does not love or respect him; I will tell you why. If a woman calls a man a loser, she thinks he is a lowlife in a
fundamental sense. That female perceives herself of a much higher value than the
providing male and is a person who does not perceive his value. Nothing he has done to this point, that mind you, allowed for the services she enjoys that were the direct product of his hard work, the consequence of his intensive sacrifice, is registered.
It's beyond games and weed if she calls you a loser. She thought of that man as a loser while he worked full-time. A case of a woman who had built hatred for a man she thought she "settled" for. The only thing he had for himself -- in her mind -- was not his character or social status, virtues, etc. All he had was working hard for money. That is the only worth she had in her mind.
He has to find better ways to live. First, he has to drop her ass, or he is a loser, for real. The paradox is; that a woman knows there should be consequences to her saying such damning remarks that signal her viewing you as an unworthy man, and she respects him less for not setting correction on that. So we can certainly conclude the guy is used as a dormant by her, essentially being a useful idiot. She does not respect this. Many women are knowingly, willfully petty like this. They will test your boundaries and look down on you for taking their bullshit.
Her seeing him being more of who he always was, a gamer weed smoker, is an insult to her ego that put up with that, in the past when she could always reduce him to a work drone that slaves away where she can minimize how she feels he is beneath her because it reinforces her self-interested bottom line. Now, her true hatred cannot be contained seeing him idle by. She would have more happier had he been a butler servant, an unfair dynamic that could recoup her for the bother she feels being around him.
A woman will not call you a loser for your own concern. Never let these women make you think that nonsense. She calls you a loser when she held back the sentiment that you never lived up to it in the first place, in her mind, telling you to, "be at least, a bit more bearable." His mere pronounced presence is an insult to her contemptful ego injury that deep down always felt she was better than him.
That's how you know this woman is purely self-serving and evil. If she felt true to her words, she would have divorced a long time ago. That guy is a fool who cannot see how her behavior really exposes what she thinks of him, the irony as mentioned, is part of why she detests him.
I would never be in a situation such as that guy but I know human psychology and how women and men work. It's very simple to understand the depth behind behavior in conditions and forms.
By the way, this guy was a stoner before she met him and throughout. His username was "SPACE W33D." I know these types. They don't become stoners in their late 30s.
This is an analysis to show you guys that you can read much from what people say and do. You don't have to overanalyze. Reading apparent behavior that carries consequences in your life, is not only warranted, but crucial.
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