There's a lot to dissect here. Let's start with the video.
So we see a man talking to a woman with a hijab at night and he's complimenting her by calling her piety sexy and that he's not for women twerking.
But he's also a man with an unbuttoned shirt and a chest tattoo. The man is good looking, and it's clearly why the woman is entertaining the man. However, should we be judging all the women because of this one woman or just her?
And if it is her, on what? Entertaining a conversation? Well the way he essentially mocked women who twerk to put her on a pedestal is suspicious, is it not? Does one use the word sexy and talk about twerking at night with good intentions?
What of her intentions though? Is the video done to make other hijabis feel good while wearing it and rocking being pious? Is that a bad thing? I don't think it is. Perhaps this man is simply a bad representative of who should have spoken to her in the first place.
Now onto the man with the tweet from another culture focused on Somali women. He must feel that there are no consequences speaking about women from different backgrounds about these things. I've met women who were Arab, Pakistani, Persian, East African, West and North African who live this life, but they're never spoken about. This is a fact. To deny it is to be delusional.
I don't think the guy who did the tweet was right because the implication of what he's saying is that this is a general pattern of behavior of Somali women. Is this what we want to allow? I think it's a violation to be honest.
Finally, I think we as men should stop idealizing women in general and putting them on pedestals. They're not mystical beings, but humans like ourselves. They're not perfect, nor should we expect them to be. Don't trust the first girl you chat with. Take things slow. Spot red flags and set clear boundaries. Do this, and you'll be fine man.