@Nilotic Something that has struck me.
African men and even other ethnic men have incredible low self esteem compared to white men. What struck me is that for at least a hundred years now, head of states of colonized lands be it Africans or Arabs or Asians have been marrying white women and making them into First Ladies or queens. White men in higher up places like prime ministers, cabinet ministers and royal families would be scandalized at the idea of elevating a non white woman. Only in very modern history do we have the likes of Meghan Markle and she’s been abused, yet you have the leaders of Botswana marrying a white woman nearly 80yrs ago making her his First Lady. You have stories of African and Arab monarchies who married white women who made them their queen whilst the colored men in the UK/US would be near enough lynched for going for one and upper class white men looked at ethnic women only being fit for undercover dalliances and being taken advantage off.