The mods will move this to the qashin thread no one wants to admit we Somalis have some messed up shit in our cultureChild molestation is rampant in our community.
Where is your proof I could also say any bullshit without proof here I'll show you Public farting is rampant in our communityChild molestation is rampant in our community.
I am Isaaq.Is this clown even Somali?
I've never heard of that of bs.
Then again Somalia have a habit of turning one off events into a pandemic.
The mods will move this to the qashin thread no one wants to admit we Somalis have some messed up shit in our culture
Im waiting for someone to report my post and it to be deleted
I am Isaaq.
I would like to talk about a sensitive issue today regarding abuses within the Somali community. Many Somalis like to believe that as Somalis, we’re good people because we’re “muslims”. The reality is, just as other communities have their perverts, and abusers we also have our fair share. It’s just not openly talked about in our communities. Especially in regards to children. I was inspired to write this blog because of a recent story that happened last night in New York (http://www.buffalonews.com/city/communities/east-side/article816245.ece <—-copy and paste this link to your url ) in which a Somali man killed his 10 year old step-son in cold blood. According to reports, the boy told many people in the Somali community that he was abusing him, and he didn't want to go back to the house. Many people didn't call the police or child protection….because from Somali culture, they thought he was just discipling the boy. This story made me cry, and was deeply sad. I was sad about the abuse this boy endured in his young life, he asked for help from the Somali community, but people didn't take the proper care to notify the police from my understanding. He told people "I don't want to go to him". He was scared for his life, and that devil monster ended up taking his life….which is with God now. I pray in gets what he deserves in jail and hell!!
Many other abuses are left unsaid. I heard cases where even teachers of Quran molest little Somali boys. Young girls are also molested, and who knows maybe no one believes them that their uncle is the one who is abusing them. The truth is the devil exists everywhere. It doesn't mean you're one religion, everyone is perfect! It's not true. Many American, Christians are better people than Somali Muslims. Good people exist everywhere. Bad people exist everywhere. When a child tells you they're being abused, you believe them. A child is pure, and innocent. Their hearts tell no lies. May Allah protect all our children from monsters.
I don't believe in spanking, or beating children to "discipline" them. I don't believe in yelling at children. Both things do nothing to make children better. Why is it that most Somali children are yelled at constantly, beat for not cleaning the house, cooking food? It doesn't make sense. Some children are even beat severely, yet no one in the community says anything because we all grew up being spanked and yelled at by our parents. It's considered "normal". Yet how is it normal when it leads a child, and teen to runaway from their houses? What are they running away from? Obviously the mental and physical abuse they face at home. Yet there are no programs in the Somali community to help with teen counseling, or safe houses for runaway teens who are being beat mercilessly in their houses. I just feel in our culture we never listen to children, it's also "shut up". "Doqonkaan" (dummy). There are of course good Somali parents, but the majority of the culture is very rough with kids. I think it's because we came from a rough country, where people were yelled at, beat to make them "straight" or "tough". You don't hear some parents praising their children, you only hear them yelling at them. How will that child become a better human being? How will that child's self-esteem be affected? It has a huge impact on their mental health. Another issue in our community is parents emotionally abusing their children. They might not feel it's emotional abuse, but it is. Emotional abuse is yelling constanting, and name calling. All these things affect the psychological development, and well-being of children. Nobody in Somalia thought about "mental health" , because everyone was so used to that. But, we're in a different culture now, it's a whole different life. We have to uplift our children, believe them when they say they're being abused. Also, know who you leave your children with. Alot of Somali parents, especially ones that grew up in Somalia say "there isn't such a thing as mental abuse". But, in fact there is. It's something that definitely exists in our communities, and we really need to educate people about them. Especially people with traditional views. Again, there are good and bad people everywhere, and that includes the Somali community.
No Isaaq would reply like that.
It ain't that hard to doxx people these days even from anonymous accounts.
Keep on posting bs about Somalia and don't get surprised when you're real identity gets posted online.
He provided no evidence for that. He just threw it out there to be sensational.The mods will move this to the qashin thread no one wants to admit we Somalis have some messed up shit in our culture
Im waiting for someone to report my post and it to be deleted
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