Does the farax or the xalimo cause divorce?

[Wervelwind]

Why is it so prevalent in Somali people??

 

[Xaruun]

Women initiate the majority of divorces. It’s probably prevalent because of lack of communication and inability to accept your spouse’s flaws.

 

[Wervelwind]

Women initiate the majority of divorces. It’s probably prevalent because of lack of communication and inability to accept your spouse’s flaws.

I think that's what happens when you marry someone without knowing them/dating them

 

[Jakarta]

Why is it so prevalent in Somali people??

In the west

Nimanka wixi noqdeen naago iyo dumarka wixi noqdeen niman.

How can a marriage survive when the roles have been switched upside down?

 

[486th President]

Xalimo yelling in front of the kids is one of the main reasons too many mothers and aunts be screaming in front of their toddlers... that just builds up stress at an early age.

Xalimos need to distance themselves a bit sometimes they be too clingy towards the man like relax!

 

[Lord]

50% of Marrige end in divorse, its not a somali thing

 

[Xaruun]

I think that's what happens when you marry someone without knowing them/dating them

They romanticise marriage too much and have unreasonable expectations.

 

[Distant1]

Most of the times the guy cant support his family with 6-7 kids plus he is mostly absent, but the wife is also not working. Maybe the problem is having 6-7 kids and expect a blissful marriage.

 

[Amirah]

Most of the times the guy cant support his family with 6-7 kids plus he is mostly absent, but the wife is also not working. Maybe the problem is having 6-7 kids and expect a blissful marriage.

The women are usually bringing more of the income one way or another. Most are living on some type of benefits or residing in subsidized housing. There’s bloody 6 or 8 Irish twins kids running around because the women think birth control is haram! The men feel useless....usually working menial or otherwise low paying jobs, and often emotionally or physically absent after work. The kids are shuttled between school to daycare to dugsi filled with equally edeb-lahaan Somali kids and might not get home until 8pm every night exhausted. The house is a mess, the mom is yelling screaming mess(and always on the phone with bunch of women for some reason), the dad is mia and the kids all seem to have ADHD. It’s a miracle, we should be thankful every second we’re Muslims or else the suicide rate would’ve been high in the community lol.

 

[AbdiS]

Usually the Xalimo. Too much buuq.