I feel there should be scrutiny on the daughterβs potential partner no matter the age. A failed marriage is so devastating for anybody. The side effects of a one parent household can serious as well.
does anyone remember that somali girl with the secretly anti islam ditch husband?
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Yes there should be. But a woman's age absolutely matters. A little girl has no business getting married, and if she wants to, it should be to a man who doesn't have too much time on her, that made him more adept at manipulation.
It all depends on the situation. Generally I would agree. I know story off 16 year old girl that had a strong sexual desire and the father saw that she will be doing haram if he doesnβt think of a solution. This is typically the motivation for a father to create an early marriage for his daughter.
In the west itβs so hard to stop a girl from doing what she wants as well.
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I'm honestly not surprised reading all this. Just like other poor communities in the west we will always have a bunch of traumatized, dumb and poor women that could easily be taken advantage of.
Only way to prevent stuff like this from happening is by elevating our people. Situations like this will start to disappear once we have better parenting and more somalis being raised in middle class households.
It's a bad look on the community too have a bunch of dumb chicks willing to marry suspicious converts.
Man that is a most unfortunate situation for those kids.
So much worse when itβs a teenage girl. Compare that to a 28 yr old woman who has more life experiences who isnβt going to be manipulated as much. As a father, you should deffo be more worried about a teen.
Honestly, again I feel bad for casting suspicions on their reversion since I can imagine the vast majority really do so because they have a genuine love for Islam, but I actually believe that they should be Muslim for 10 yrs before a Somali girl marries one I donβt think a girl under 25 should marry one. I think he should be someone that has been practicing and in the community for at least 10 yrs and someone has been consistent.
Yes, I exposed her white supremacist husband in 2016.
How did you do that? How did you find out?
I remember making the thread and I do recall the evidence came from a piece he posted on a Dutch news website. He was quite public of his views but of course he wasn't anyone famous except with Somalis and some Muslim women on Instagram. His name wasn't really known. He was the Cheese in "Cheese and Xalwo". He said he saw Black women as a fetish or something like that. It was disgusting that she was showing that man around to young Somali girls as some kind of trophy.
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Was he writing those articles with his name on it? While married to a black Muslim woman? How did he not expect his racism to eventually be exposed if he wasnβt writing those article anonymously?
Doesnβt work in the situation in which the dad is gaal. Really depends on the sincerity of his conversion tbh. If it was fake then the marriage was really null and void tbh. Obviously the Muslim wife would be innocent since she was deceived. But as far as I know kids with gaal dads upon conception take the motherβs name and tribe. Thatβs Islamic law.
I know since his is a white supremacist, he clearly is a few screws loose. But I could never for the life of me understand, how he was able to βconvertβ to islam, marry a darkskin woman & have kids with her whilst having these views. I remember reading on reddit a confession of a white man who secretly visualises his mixed race black wife as a house slave when they are having s*x. I guess this is alot more common than I thought.
Wasnβt she an Ethiopian who pretends to be Somali though?
they were both teenagers and he was her boyfriend i think, so she wasn't groomed
anyway I never felt sorry for her. The situation was terrible but she chose to make a youtube channel acting like she had a happy family while basically sending that same message to other teenage girls that if you marry your convert white boyfriend and live in his parents house until you get on your feet, its okay because look at my beautiful family and house now! meanwhile the man is a kafir writing vile things on the Prophet (saw)! and probably being abusive too
