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Basra your wisdom is like that of the ocean and beyond .huuno Somali mothers typically have mental illness. They themselves think they are victims yet they are also victimizers.
My habar yeer abuses her children by calling them useless and praising us their cousins. She lives by herself in her 80s. Its mental illness huuno.
How i handle it is- i am dutiful. I know my aunt loves money - so once in a while i surprise her with money and she never forgets it for 12 months praising me. It’s all about validation.
Lack of imaan that’s why. When you have imaan no matter how hard or difficult life becomes you will always stay positive and happy.You story is very common.
I think it’s obvious that the life a lot of Somali mothers have isn’t the life they envisioned tbh. Being immigrants, PPD (untreated post partum depression), being the responsible one in the relationship despite being told that a man is meant to look with many being married single mothers, having more than 4+ and having to be the ones that worry about them. Uneducated and the list continues.
She could be taking out her frustrations on you and everyone else. If you have a proper sit down talk with her, it will be evident that she thinks she’s a victim of life. Sounds like she’s constantly angry.
I have so many aunts like this. I genuinely believe a good % of older generation women are miserable.
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That’s easy to say tbh. Many of them might have PPD and untreated depression.Lack of imaan that’s why. When you have imaan no matter how hard or difficult life becomes you will always stay positive and happy.
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