Do you think the mother is the as***** in this situation?

[VixR]

Allah has set a seal upon their hearts and upon their hearing, and over their vision is a veil. And for them is a great punishment.

-Sura Al-Baqarah, Ayah 7

She did everything right that you could possibly do for a kid you don’t want. Give it up for adoption to a family, which even included one bio parent, in this case..

It’s almost saintly. Most women, being human, would not give parental rights over the other woman even if they didn’t want the kid. She clearly wanted out.

 

[AussieHustler]

Somalis love to judge others so easily without walking in their shoes.

 

[MuMaMe]

Bro, stop quoting ayahs to people who believe it’s a lie sxb. It’s like arguing with a wall.

Im not arguing with them fam. Thats the only communication you can have with people who are lost to the point that basic human empathy is beginning to escape them.


Satan promises them and arouses desire in them. But Satan does not promise them except delusion.

-Sura An-Nisa', Ayah 120

 

[MuMaMe]

She did everything right that you could possibly do for a kid you don’t want. Give it up for adoption to a family, which even included one bio parent, in this case..

It’s almost saintly. Most women, being human, would not give parental rights over the other woman even if they didn’t want the kid. She clearly wanted out.

Do not kill your children for fear of poverty––We shall provide for them and for you––killing them is a great sin.

-Sura Al-Isra', Ayah 31

 

[VixR]

The other woman, that died, should be commended as well. She adopted and raised the kid from the ex wife of the married guy she’d cheated with. The true lying, cheating asshole that caused all this is the father. I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t die, and he’s fucking with the ex wife.

 

[IBRAHIM.]

So I came across this thread on reddit.

What shocked the most was how majority of the people on that thread didn't think she was the asshole. I even came across a similar thread couple of months. I am shocked by how people think that refusing your biological child to see you is fine despite you bringing the child to this world. I am speechless.

Same thing happened to my dad. When my grandfather passed away, my grandmom was just going thru it. She had two sons with my grandfather. They were related too.a couple months after my dad was born and my grandfather had passed away. She wanted to do nothing with her sons. She left them with my dad’s grandfather who was old. He actually raised them. But with my grand mom she came back to see them after he had turned 10 and my uncle had died. The surprising part was when she came back my dad was told to greet his mom and he said she wasn’t his mom(this is way back in the 70’s in Somalia). She started crying wallahi. Saying that the family had turned her son against her.(which wasn’t the case, he just had a chip on his shoulder) my great grandfather after seeing her cry and her outrageous allegation, slapped the shit outta 10 year old aabo and commanded him to greet his mother. The rest is history but my dad never got to see his mother again after he left somalia. She died before he could see her again. I never heard her voice nor saw her face juts stories from my dad.

Shot like this happens sxb. If niggas can leave their kids without a shadow of guilt so can woman to a much intense degree.
Now he has 9 children. His 10th is a couple months in the oven cooking up. I’m proud of how far he has come.

 

[HalimaJ]

I think many here are shocked a woman did it as women have a more intense emotional connection with their child.

Men do this all the time. Yet many on sspot make excuses for their behaviour and solely berate the single mother.

This thread is funny to observe.

 

[Furioso]

But a real man should raise another man's child while a real mother should dump her biological child

Amazing IQ our xalimos have

Don’t compare the two situations. In this situation, the mother had an agreement with the father and signed over her parental rights. In the other, we had a man who knew he had a child and never had a conversation with the mother.

 

[Hardwork2019]

Im not arguing with them fam. Thats the only communication you can have with people who are lost to the point that basic human empathy is beginning to escape them.


Satan promises them and arouses desire in them. But Satan does not promise them except delusion.

-Sura An-Nisa', Ayah 120

This is not approptiate .first you cant convince someone to change his behavior by quoating verses which they dont believe in.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

You men don't understand anything, the man cheated on her and this caused her to have postpartum depression, she made the right choice a lot of women who have this end up Killing themselves and the baby.

The father is a bastard. He should stayed loyal to her instead of thinking with his microscopic penis.

 

[somebody]

While obviously the man is a bastard and is the main cause for her suffering, her excuse for refusing her daughter to see her is selfish. Any father or mother of a kid that ghost their children( unless due to an extreme circumstance) or at least refuses them to see them are assholes in my opinion . What rather shocked me was how most people in that thread thought that she did nothing wrong.