Do you think a lot about marriage?

[Zahra]

Here's a typical married couple argument/fight that can go on for a week; "You're being distant with me, why are you emotionally pushing me away?".

It's a fucking chore depending on the girl wallahi. The only way to avoid that bollocks is by not marrying a girl you're actually in love with. The moment they realise you love them, they start taking the piss lool

Marriage takes WORK! You will need lots of patience and sometimes you have to even be the bigger person in certain arguments just so things can come to an end eventually.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Lmao i laughed so hard.

Am I wrong? Lool

Marriage takes WORK! You will need lots of patience and sometimes you have to even be the bigger person in certain arguments just so things can come to an end eventually.

I feel like "be the bigger person" is tactic used to castrate men in relationships/marriage wallahi. Before you know it she's always right and you end up being one of those dead-eyed pathetic husbands who has to carry their wives handbag in public

 

[Zahra]

Am I wrong? Lool

I feel like "be the bigger person" is tactic used to castrate men in relationships/marriage wallahi. Before you know it she's always right and you end up being one of those dead-eyed pathetic husbands who has to carry their wives handbag in public

No your not wrong. Lol I'm married I know, I could add to your scenarios.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

No your not wrong. Lol I'm married I know, I could add to your scenarios.

As a married woman, can I ask you something?

Is true that marriage is just an extension of dating, wherein you still need to need retain the same traits/habits/personality that made you attractive to your wife in the first place?
Because that sounds exhausting wallahi

 

[Zahra]

As a married woman, can I ask you something?

Is true that marriage is just an extension of dating, wherein you still need to need retain the same traits/habits/personality that made you attractive to your wife in the first place?
Because that sounds exhausting wallahi

Let me be honest, and let me say it again MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK!! In marriage whether male or female you need to not forget about yourself, you need to still be true to who you are, BUTTT you have to take into consideration this other person that you have come together with to join as one. Let's be real, the person you marry will never be 100% of what you ever wanted or dreamed of, and that's okay, dont try to change them into who you want either. I mean think about it like this, as humans its hard enough trying to change yourself, so forget and give up on the idea of trying to change your spouse, it's mission impossible. Remember why you fell in love with your spouse and always have that in the back of your mind during troubling times.