Do you think a lot about marriage?

[Wervelwind]

Does it make you stress ?

 

[Zahra]

Does it make you stress ?

How old are you ?

 

[Wervelwind]

How old are you ?

30

 

[Zahra]

30

Male or female?

 

[Febbie]

Stress is bad for your health. Avoid it at all costs!

Marriage will come when you're ready.

 

[Wervelwind]

Male or female?

nin sxb

 

[Wervelwind]

Stress is bad for your health. Avoid it at all costs!

Marriage will come when you're ready.

I'm not stressed. It's just my hooyo seems to worry about it and i wanted to know how you guys are dealing with it

 

[Zahra]

nin sxb

Let marriage come naturally. Don't rush into looking for a spouse. The right person will present themselves to you. Take your time.

 

[Wervelwind]

Let marriage come naturally. Don't rush into looking for a spouse. The right person will present themselves to you. Take your time.

Out of curiosity, what would you have said if I'm a xalimo?

 

[Lebron James]

30

Damn you niggas are old

 

[Febbie]

Damn you niggas are old

I think it's good we have people in their 30s and 40s in the room. Too many ciyaal here posting nonsensical topics. It's nice to have a balance of ages.

 

[Zahra]

Out of curiosity, what would you have said if I'm a xalimo?

The same thing. It doesn't matter if your a male or female. Don't rush into marriage, it's not some game. It's a life changing experience that needs to be thought out carefully. When trying to merge 2 lives together its important that you choose wisely and think with both your head and heart.

 

[Siddhartha]

Not marriage but I think about women alot

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Have a wank in the shower or something sxb, marriage isn't all it's cracked up to be half the time lol. Besides, it's not like you've got to worry about your fertility/geriatric pregnancy.

 

[Wervelwind]

Damn you niggas are old

Your year of birth is probably above 2000 right? Wallahi that stuff freaks me out when I realise that y'all are 20 years old

 

[Wervelwind]

Have a wank in the shower or something sxb, marriage isn't all it's cracked up to be half the time lol. Besides, it's not like you've got to worry about your fertility/geriatric pregnancy.

Do you have experience or are you talking about married ppl you know?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Do you have experience or are you talking about married ppl you know?

My bestfriends is married and my other good friend is basically married (10yr relationship). It's hard work sxb, it's a fucking BALLACHE and can be emotionally draining. Trust me, you're not missing much.

 

[Wervelwind]

My bestfriends is married and my other good friend is basically married (10yr relationship). It's hard work sxb, it's a fucking BALLACHE and can be emotionally draining. Trust me, you're not missing much.

Thanks. I heard before it's a headache but what exactly do they mean? Is it their wives nagging them or something else?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Thanks. I heard before it's a headache but what exactly do they mean? Is it their wives nagging them or something else?

Here's a typical married couple argument/fight that can go on for a week; "You're being distant with me, why are you emotionally pushing me away?". You could legit just be busy at work, but every little thing you do or say will get dissected if she's in the mood for a fight lol.

It's a fucking chore depending on the girl wallahi. The only way to avoid that bollocks is by not marrying a girl you're actually in love with. The moment they realise you love them, they start taking the piss lool

 

[Zahra]

Here's a typical married couple argument/fight that can go on for a week; "You're being distant with me, why are you emotionally pushing me away?".

It's a fucking chore depending on the girl wallahi. The only way to avoid that bollocks is by not marrying a girl you're actually in love with. The moment they realise you love them, they start taking the piss lool

Lmao i laughed so hard.