Do you shoot your shot at randoms?

[Jake from State Farm]

i had a convo with my friends last night about this.

It seems non of us have actually done it. Most just date and talk to the girls they either work with or have been classmates with. That’s either.

Last night was when I realized I am willing to jump off cliffs
But don’t have the ability to just approach a random girl and start flirting. I’m getting nervous for no reason

Now part of me wants to get rid of this behavior.

Earlier this semster I met a classmate who was pretty cool and just created convos with herZ which was like easy. But that’s cause I was able to start a convo about the course. Than from their I transitioned to other topics it came easy to me.

This is weird. It might be the fear of rejection. Idk. Most I have interacted with

@Kudhufo Kadhaqaq @Abdalla @Dalmoor @Sheikh @Hmmmm @Subeer @YourBroMoe
Are y’all able to walk up and pick up random females. Give me some tips and tricks.

Ladies give me your insights. Do you like when randoms approach you trying to get those digits @Reiko @Xalimo from da block @Knowles @Emily

 

[Jake from State Farm]

This weird man cause all my friends never considers me a shy person.
I have hit the whip and turned up in front of thousands of people before.

I know this isn’t stage fright

 

[Balqisa]

I don't see the difference between a 'random' and a classmate.

 

[Emily]

Well it depends on the person and how he approaches me. If he is really shy but cute I try to be more nice and inviting, I usually lead the conversation. If I am not really into him I would just tell him that I have a man.

A random guy asking just for a number that is a no no.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I don't see the difference between a 'random' and a classmate.

Easier to start a convo with a classmate. Cause you share a class together.

Walking up to a girl thats alone at the mall seem difficult as hell. An extreme sport

 

[yaanyuur]

I have been rejected 2 times by 2 girls in september, Don't be afraid of rejection. Ask @Emily @Reiko @Dalmoor they seen my threads. I made a Bumble account and I am already killing it. Don't be afraid dude. I got rejected in person and online. Ain't nothing to worry about. I even got rejected by a classmate who I see everyday. You eventually become careless

 

[Emily]

I have been rejected 2 times by 2 girls in september, Don't be afraid of rejection. Ask @Emily @Reiko @Dalmoor they seen my threads. I made a Bumble account and I am already killing it. Don't be afraid dude. I got rejected in person and online. Ain't nothing to worry about.

Yep rejection only makes you stronger

 

[Balqisa]

Easier to start a convo with a classmate. Cause you share a class together.

Walking up to a girl thats alone at the mall seem difficult as hell. An extreme sport

We live in the age of social media . You can just DM and not approach lol

 

[Jake from State Farm]

We live in the age of social media . You can just DM and not approach lol

Did that once and was told I ended up in her group chat.

Since than I’m picky in dming girls

 

[Keo]

I don't see the difference between a 'random' and a classmate.

The difference is the environment.

 

[Keo]

But some girls don't like to be randomly approached because we live in this day and age where approaching a girl on the street can be seen as sexual harassment or something so you have to tread carefully.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

But some girls don't like to be randomly approached because we live in this day and age where approaching a girl on the street can be seen as sexual harassment or something so you have to tread carefully.

Sexual harassment?

My guy as long as you ain’t walking up to people asking to sniff their ass than you should be fine.

 

[Keo]

Sexual harassment?

My guy as long as you ain’t walking up to people asking to sniff their ass than you should be fine.

Dude, it ain't happening as much but there's girls out there that will do this. You don't know what some ridiculous stuff they coming up with. Keep thinking this is only an "Internet thing".

 

[Jake from State Farm]

@shabellegal give me your thoughts fam

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Dude, it ain't happening as much but there's girls out there that will do this. You don't know what some ridiculous stuff they coming up with. Keep thinking this is only an "Internet thing".

If your in a public place and you just had a convo with a girl than don’t say anything crazy.

 

[guntiino101]

Did that once and was told I ended up in her group chat.

Since than I’m picky in dming girls

All guys that DM girls end up in group chats It's fairly normal, and nothing that should stop you from trying

 

[Jake from State Farm]

All guys that DM girls end up in group chats It's fairly normal, and nothing that should stop you from trying

Y’all so savage man. Why can’t the guy take the L in peace. Why y’all got to expose him

 

[Sheikh]

Yeah fam I'm able to walk and pickup random females.

These are the tips and tricks.

1. First whenever approaching a woman always have a line to say ready so you can start a conversation.
2. Speak bold and don't hesitant when speaking.
3. Meeting women at cafes or meetings like Starbucks is a good way to pick them up.
4. Be humorous and tell some jokes.
5. Then you'll get the digits.

 

[heretocollectwigs]

to keep it real

no, cause i don't know what i would do if i got rejected

 

[Hmmmm]

I always shoot my shot, been doing it ever since I was 16 . Once you get the first rejection that fear is gone. Also, you never know if the female is also feeling you, unless you try.

My advise.

Be yourself and compliment her. Also make sure your a smooth talker