Do you have a mental image of your ideal partner?

I think most people have a mental image of their ideal partner. What they look like, what they’re wearing, smell like etc.
Get this idealism out of your head. People often have a image of an ideal partner in their head and their actual partner is just a frame to impose their idealisms on. Relationships don't last because the façade of your pre imposed ideals on your partner are reviled when your partner has their own personality that goes beyond the image of them you have in your head. Approach things like love with realistic and non-idealist lenses you will save your partner and yourself a lot of strife.
 

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Get this idealism out of your head. People often have a image of an ideal partner in their head and their actual partner is just a frame to impose their idealisms on. Relationships don't last because the façade of your pre imposed ideals on your partner are reviled when your partner has their own personality that goes beyond the image of them you have in your head. Approach things like love with realistic and non-idealist lenses you will save your partner and yourself a lot of strife.
:mjdontkno: Unfortunately, the ideal image is non-existent, and even a close enough approximation will not exemplify all the character attributes you want. Something will invariably be missing.

As for myself, I'm good-looking with some admirable characteristics, but I score high on narcissism. I'm self-aware enough to acknowledge that. I know I'm not entirely bankrupt in empathy, nor is my intention to destroy the lives of others. I'm not sadistic or malignant. Nor overly aggressive. But I acknowledge my self-centredness. My levels of cognitive empathy are improving as well, thanks to a shrink that's applying the right approaches. Someday maybe I'll improve enough not to smother someone with a pillow. Someday.

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Nilotic women are extremely fine wallahi, but I'd be considered a midget to them as I'm only 6'1 :mjlol: . I've got bulk though lool.
Not Nilotic but I once encountered a DESI couple that was taller than me. Both the nin iyo naag. I was star struck and kept staring after them. Miss Shimbiris didn't get why I was so fascinated. I was like "I'm 6 ft. Maybe even 6'1 with these sneakers on. And they're both taller than me. Subxanallah, didn't know they made Desis like that."
 
:mjdontkno: Unfortunately, the ideal image is non-existent, and even a close enough approximation will not exemplify all the character attributes you want. Something will invariably be missing.

As for myself, I'm good-looking with some admirable characteristics, but I score high on narcissism. I'm self-aware enough to acknowledge that. I know I'm not entirely bankrupt in empathy, nor is my intention to destroy the lives of others. I'm not sadistic or malignant. Nor overly aggressive. But I acknowledge my self-centredness. My levels of cognitive empathy are improving as well, thanks to a shrink that's applying the right approaches. Someday maybe I'll improve enough not to smother someone with a pillow. Someday.

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You're killing me with this
 

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Henry Cavill. Even though instinctively i know he is Gay or has a small penis, i still think i am dead set to be Mrs. Cavill





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Gay kulaha. Dude's been dating women left and right for ages. One of his exes was an MMA chick. You think this woman is going to beard for someone:


?

:mjlol:

In all seriousness, ayeeyo, I'm genuinely hurt that they didn't work out. Look at them:

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They would have produced such perfectly model faced ilmo.

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"Side piece" kulaha. Sorry walal, I'd never demean myself like that. It's all or nothing! :win:
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:mjdontkno:In full disclosure, everyone takes a back seat to my passions (grave digging and writing maudlin poems about specters). If I love too much I may kill. And I think you prefer living over the alternative. I'm essentially a Somali Morticia. The likes of which only a deranged and perpetually lovestruck Gomez could tie-down.

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:mjdontkno:In full disclosure, everyone takes a back seat to my passions (grave digging and writing maudlin poems about specters). If I love too much I may kill. And I think you prefer living over the alternative. I'm essentially a Somali Morticia. The likes of which only a deranged and perpetually lovestruck Gomez could tie-down.

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The end of your future marriage:

 

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The end of your future marriage:

I'm not jealous nor adulterous so that's not happening.:mjlaugh:


You can dig graves without disposing of bodies. Have you no imagination? I'm not moronic like those drill rappers speaking about sending their OPs to the morgue only to catch a case two seconds later from their poetic confessions.
 

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I'm not jealous nor adulterous so that's not happening.:mjlaugh:


You can dig graves without disposing of bodies. Have you no imagination? I'm not moronic like those drill rappers speaking about sending their OPs to the morgue only to catch a case two seconds later from their poetic confessions.

I swear that girl Love was wilding.

*slashes a woman's throat*
"Joe, what are WE going to do about this?!"
*screams out that she murdered a woman for him while they have guests upstairs*
"Oh my god, that was the best sex we ever had after we just knocked out and locked up those two innocent people!"

Bisinka iya yasinka. Naagahan cad waa cajiib. And don't get me started on ninka Joe.
 

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