Do you believe you should be doing well financially and have your own place before dating someone?

[JohnCena]

Thoughts?

 

[Qeelbax]

Why do you need your own place? Unless it’s a newlywed house or you’re moving out for school or work then that’s it. If they think a man needs a house before marriage then they’re upto some saqajaanimo, you should ghost them.

You should have your shit somewhat together before courting. Courting is for marriage afterall.

 

[Mujaahid Rag ah]

Probably impossible, unless you become the top 1, which isn’t easy to reach in your mid 20s (when you are done with your education), I don’t know if you want to wait like until you are 40s? Btw you can somehow do it if you live in Nordic countries , live with your parents, take the uni loan (it’s free interest until you are done with your education) and invest ( it’s also not easy, you got 10 siblings, no space and hard to tell your Somali parents you are saving money, they want a piece of the cake lol)

 

[Strawberry]

Thoughts?

I don’t date but I feel like if you are getting married/or in a relationship you should have your own place …I can’t imagine how awkward & embarrassing it would be if hoyo and Abe walked in on you

 

[Yaraye]

There is no way a woman should live with her MIL. That just call for problems in the marriage. A guy doesn't need to have his own place before marriage but should have enough to get a place for both himself and spouse.

 

[Hmohamed54]

You can live with parents while single but when getting married you shoukd pick a place with her

 

[HIBAQ123]

A man who can cook and clean for himself and has his own place >>>>>>>> mommy's boy

common sense

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Marriage is for anyone. It shouldn’t be gatekept

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

Dating, no. Marriage as a man, yes. However for dating, having these things at a sensible age makes life easier.

 

[Sheikh Google]

Are we Timo Jilec or something. Of course you should be able to afford to move out if you getting married. It ain't our culture to bring home ya bride and karbaash living with your parents.

 

[NordicSomali]

Are we Timo Jilec or something. Of course you should be able to afford to move out if you getting married. It ain't our culture to bring home ya bride and karbaash living with your parents.

My view is that both partners could combine their income and live easier, it’s not sufficient that the guy should afford everything.

 

[Hmohamed54]

My view is that both partners could combine their income and live easier, it’s not sufficient that the guy should afford everything.

Two income is better because you live with less stress.

 

[Lebron James]

For sure whats the point of getting with someone if you aren't personally stable yourself.

 

[Awad]

Are we Timo Jilec or something. Of course you should be able to afford to move out if you getting married. It ain't our culture to bring home ya bride and karbaash living with your parents.

Why are you dissing timo jileec as of they don't own property meanwhile somalis live off government housing

 

[seldiboy]

Women won’t bother dating you if you can’t afford a place/aren’t financially stable anyway

 

[Sheikh Google]

Why are you dissing timo jileec as of they don't own property meanwhile somalis live off government housing

im the biggest timo jilec lover on this site and will defend them always. However, one aspect of their culture I will never f*ck with is moving their wives in with their parents. That's some lame shit to me.

 

[Smokybob03]

Yes. That shows how serious the man is. Have your funds and Career in order. Poor finances is the number one reason why women divorce men.

 

[JohnCena]

im the biggest timo jilec lover on this site and will defend them always. However, one aspect of their culture I will never f*ck with is moving their wives in with their parents. That's some lame shit to me.

Its free babysitting though

 

[Ibn Amer]

Women won’t bother dating you if you can’t afford a place/aren’t financially stable anyway

If your face and guska game is on point then no.

 

[seldiboy]

If your face and guska game is on point then no.

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