Do you ask the person's qabiil when you are getting to know someone romantically?

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

This dude didn't speak Somali at all. I think I got him to say

'magaca' or something and that is it. Fucking fish iyo chibis. :/ I know dialect is a big giveaway.

He is probably not from Somaliland since Somalilanders are nationalist and will tell you

 

[Coulombs law]

I don't even bother asking, my Sub clan rarely beefs with others, so there is usually a slim chance the Girls family will reject me based on Clan.

But if you guys know each other for a couple of months or for a while then you can straight up ask, but if you guys are just getting to know each other then don't ask for the clan straight up rather inquire about the region they hail from.

 

[Kuleyl Weeyan]

He is probably not from Somaliland since Somalilanders are nationalist and will tell you

LOOOOOOL how are you going to generalise like that? I don't agree.

 

[Kuleyl Weeyan]

I just say ya tahay. I hate people who try to be sneaky about qabil. Hell even if a stranger asks me I just say who I am. I had never a girl take offense. In fact last xalimo I was talking to asked me straight up.....and then said good you are not hawiye. Not gonna waste my time on one. I asked he why you hate them. She said they killed half my family. I said thats as solid reason to hate as you can have

:/

Solid reason kulaha. That is fucked up if anything.

 

[Gooney112]

:/

Solid reason kulaha. That is fucked up if anything.

eyy everyone has the right to dislike who they want. Atleast she gave a solid reason. Im not gonna go all oprah on her and preach love everyone. There is nothing wrong with disliking certain group of people as long as you leave them alone. Its when you treat people bad and act on your dislike that you are a f*ck up. There is a host of group of people I dislike. I just dont bother them and let them be.

 

[Coulombs law]

:/

Solid reason kulaha. That is fucked up if anything.

Whats your clan if I may ask ? I have you pegged as a southerner currently.

 

[Luna]

You can tell what region they are from from a variety of ways:

1) Do they eat their food with a banana?

2) What is their accent when they speak Somali?

3) Are their fingers skinny and bony?

Explain your theory

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

Explain your theory

Southern men have skinny and bony fingers

 

[Kuleyl Weeyan]

eyy everyone has the right to dislike who they want. Atleast she gave a solid reason. Im not gonna go all oprah on her and preach love everyone. There is nothing wrong with disliking certain group of people as long as you leave them alone. Its when you treat people bad and act on your dislike that you are a f*ck up. There is a host of group of people I dislike. I just dont bother them and let them be.

It is sad though? Don't you think? I have a qabiil. Obviously my qabiil has been hurt by another qabiil in the past. This is the case for most qabiils. However, I haven't ruled that qabiil out when it comes to romantic partners or friends or anything. :/

 

[Kuleyl Weeyan]

Whats your clan if I may ask ? I have you pegged as a southerner currently.

Not important.

 

[Basra]

I am biased to Isaaq. If u r one, its like I get that feeling when I see a hot blonde blue eyed hunk!

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

Not important.

You are from the south because they hide their clan

 

[Coulombs law]

You are from the south because they hide their clan

Bingo, I knew she was southerner judging by how she is hiding her clan. :siilaanyosmile:

 

[Gooney112]

I am wary of people who hide their tribe....are you ashamed?

 

[Guts]

He is probably not from Somaliland since Somalilanders are nationalist and will tell you

Isaaqs are crazy with their qabiil-game, i went to buy a drink in hargeisa one time and the cashier asked me what qabiil i'm because i had a weird accent.

Wallahi isaaqs are strange humans they will literally have their hand up your face when they are talking with you.

 

[Mercury]

Getting to know someone its not smart to ask about their qabiil its better to ask where in Somalia theyre from and if they been there

After couple of months down the line you could ask theyre qabiil and how theyre relatives feel about qabiil

 

[shabellegal]

I don’t think anyone cares for a women’s clan. Only a dumbass asks for a clan directly, the smarter way is to ask what region they hail from or notice the dialect their family speaks.

Anyways thats the last thing I’m worried about.

 

[Guts]

Getting to know someone its not smart to ask about their qabiil its better to ask where in Somalia theyre from and if they been there

After couple of months down the line you could ask theyre qabiil and how theyre relatives feel about qabiil

Saxiib i love your profile picture is that a camel calf?

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I am wary of people who hide their tribe....are you ashamed?

You can’t really do anything about that.

If someone’s parents dislike you because of your qabil which you have no control over than its best to stay away from that family.

I’m gaboye and the marriage issues is one of the topics my mother brought up when we spoke about qabil. I didn’t even know wtf gaboye was for like 20 years until she told me.

Seems like I might be limited basically.

We will see in the future happens in the future.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Also op I haven’t really tried to get to know any xalimos yet.

So no experience with Somali girls.