Here we go again. I'm beginning to realise how self-hating some young Gen Z Somali men are becoming. Instead of looking at cadaan women, why don't you look at the sacrifices your mother has made for you and your abo over the years and how thankless and taken for granted she has been.
Somali women are expected to cook, clean and serve their families, many have done everything by themselves without any help from their spouses,
yet one cadaan woman does the norm, in many cases even less as cadaan women tend to expect more egalitarian relationships and yet they're put on a pedestal.
My uncle and I were once watching a Mo Farah documentary and Mo Farax was basically tending to his daughters and doing their hair. My adeero jokingly said, a Farax wouldn't do it for his Somali spouse, but he'll be doing it for an ajnabi and that is when it hit me. It was a joke, I laughed but despite the laughter we both damn well knew their was an element of truth to it..... Awkward moment indeed.