Marriage is nice but kinda pointless in the great USofA. I suggest everybody work on themselves so you don't have to rely on nobody else.
To all my Farahs: first get your education, get a nice paying job with your degree, pay off loans and car notes, buy your hooya a house, stack up like crazzyy, and when you've saved a good chunk of change (preferably a quarter to a million dollars) then find yourself a nice Xalimo that can help you properly raise your future children. Even tho I'll probably be in my mid-30s when I get married, I'll at least be financially, emotionally, and hopefully spiritually mature.