Do nice guys finish last

[AussieHustler]

Personally I'm marrying a lesser attractive girl. Because if she tries to cheat, nobodys wants her ass anyways

@Zakaria Hussein

Is that Eeddo Basra?

You invested too much in your cousin’s kacsi. Take him holidays to East Europe, Turkey or Thailand and he will come back like @mrlog as a reformed mamas boy and an ATM alpha male.

Look where being a nice guy got me? I’m now carrying @Knowles handbag and car keys while she is sampling all kinds of men. But I’m loyal to her and still harbour the dream that one day, she will be be my bi.ch.

 

[Zakaria Hussein]

@Zakaria Hussein

Is that Eeddo Basra?

You invested too much in your cousin’s kacsi. Take him holidays to East Europe, Turkey or Thailand and he will come back like @mrlog as a reformed mamas boy and an ATM alpha male.

Look where being a nice guy got me? I’m now carrying @Knowles handbag and car keys while she is sampling all kinds of men. But I’m loyal to her and still harbour the dream that one day, she will be be my bi.ch.

Lol if Basra is a 4, then why not sxb. But she'd have to be happy to share.

I don't want the burden of his sins on me sxb. I've already got too much dhembi on my own to account for plus he would very likely go tell his mum if suggested it...

Loool you and knowles, ka gaarsi sxb.. Keep being good she might give you treat

 

[Vanessa]

I believe your cousin did nothing wrong of mentioning marriage at second date. She ghosted him and that’s a sign from Allah she’s not for him. Consider that a fate walal.

 

[Vanessa]

Discard this my previous post. So was he asking her hand in marriage at the second date? I think he went too far. He should’ve waited and to see if she’s suitable for him and get to know her. Without istakhara and went for the marriage subxanallah

 

[Zakaria Hussein]

Discard this my previous post. So was he asking her hand in marriage at the second date? I think he went too far. He should’ve waited and to see if she’s suitable for him and get to know her. Without istakhara and went for the marriage subxanallah

Yeah walaal. He didn't propose to her but just suggested he wanted to date so it can lead on too marraige.

At the same time she should've felt flattered that he was being honest. I think it just makes him look a bit desperate to bring it up. She probably didn't see it coming and panicked.

 

[Emily]

I know of a really good brother who's been on a date recently. It went left, he came of too desperate. Smh

He let the xalimo know on a second date that he was perusing marraige. She hasn't answered his calls since and it's been like 3 days since their last date.

The guy is 28, good looking (no homo) , but he has literally 0 experience on dating. What tips would you advice for someone like this on finding a suitable spouse and not too waste their time with girls who are not serious. (s)

Is this about you

Anyway when you tell a girl that you want to get married on the first few dates you come across as a fake nigga who just wants to get laid. You get to know the person better on the first few weeks. Your friend needs to find a woman around his age who is ready to settle, girls in their early twenties are not in a rush.

 

[Zakaria Hussein]

:siilaanyolaugh::siilaanyolaugh:

Is this about you

Anyway when you tell a girl that you want to get married on the first few dates you come across as a fake nigga who just wants to get laid. You get to know the person better on the first few weeks. Your friend needs to find a woman around his age who is ready to settle, girls in their early twenties are not in a rush.

Agree with you. He's a bit of an open book and just says what he feels. She sadly wasn't fond of his approach lol. But nah girls in their early 20s can marry.

Your not really at the fountain of youth in your mid 20s. :siilaanyolaugh:

I think their should always be an age gap as girls mature quicker then guys tbh. But I'm also mess with older girls, who are a 4

 

[Vanessa]

Yeah walaal. He didn't propose to her but just suggested he wanted to date so it can lead on too marraige.

At the same time she should've felt flattered that he was being honest. I think it just makes him look a bit desperate to bring it up. She probably didn't see it coming and panicked.

Your cousin did nothing wrong and he’s not desperate. His intention to get married whilst dating. I see he doesn’t want to waste time. That’s okay. He needs to keep trying and being open. Eventually he will find a perfect match Inshallah.

 

[Zakaria Hussein]

Your cousin did nothing wrong and he’s not desperate. His intention to get married whilst dating. I see he doesn’t want to waste time. That’s okay. He needs to keep trying and being open. Eventually he will find a perfect match Inshallah.

I agree. He's a really nice guy and good looking. Hell find a xalimo thats like minded. The girl he dated probably was not ready for commitments.

It was his first date, I think that's what's insane for him. I think he was expecting things to just go smooth.

But your right he just needs to be persistent and find a level 4 humble chick

 

[World]

If you’re good looking it doesn’t matter if you’re a nice guy or a player or w/e, your personality means f*ck all if you’re tall and have an attractive face as long as you’re not a sociopath. I can attest to this.

Guys who complain about girls not wanting nice guys are usually ugly and short and think being polite gives them entitlement to a girl’s pussy.

 

[Zakaria Hussein]

If you’re good looking it doesn’t matter if you’re a nice guy or a player or w/e, your personality means f*ck all if you’re tall and have an attractive face as long as you’re not a sociopath. I can attest to this.

Guys who complain about girls not wanting nice guys are usually ugly and short and think being polite gives them entitlement to a girl’s pussy.

No looks mean only so much. You'll get the attention but girls still want you to persue them and flex.

But honestly looks make it that much easier as girls and guys still lust about appearances. If your a buff 6'4 guy with nice clothes on you'll grab their attention.

 

[Abdalla]

The only remedy of being scared of s is by gaining lots of experience yourself. If you have had plenty of females, then you wont be insecure about her past.

The thought of paying for something while other got it for free, scares the hell out of us.

 

[Inquisitive_]

I know of a really good brother who's been on a date recently. It went left, he came of too desperate. Smh

He let the xalimo know on a second date that he was perusing marraige. She hasn't answered his calls since and it's been like 3 days since their last date.

The guy is 28, good looking (no homo) , but he has literally 0 experience on dating. What tips would you advice for someone like this on finding a suitable spouse and not too waste their time with girls who are not serious. (s)

His inexperience is not the problem her, his low standards are, to address this you need to understand the psychology of people that have low standards and were this originates.

It comes from having no goals in life or working towards any goals in life, it comes from not having achieved or accomplished anything of real significance in your life that your proud of.

It's the cause of several terrible psychological mishaps like low self-value, low self-esteem, low self-confidence followed by low self-respect.

These types of people are not "nice guys", they are losers and that's why they always come last in life because they put in the 'least' amount of work.

 

[HalimaJ]

I think guys need to stop being entitled and understand that not every woman is going to fall for them just because they are 'nice'.

If a girl is attracted to you she isn't going to be freaked out about a guy mentioning marriage on a second date. If anything she will be glad, as it shows he is serious about committing.

Those that are implying that this happened to him, because he is 'nice' or a beta need to understand that life doesn't work like that.

Men that you probably regard as being 'alpha' get rejected as well. It really does come down to the fact that if a woman doesn't feel you are the one for her, then no matter how 'tough/manly' you think you are, you will still be rejected.

All of those men that come across as doing well with women have also been rejected a couple of time if not more.
Since men are the pursuers, its natural that some women they pursue are not going to be attraced to them. Men that understand this are usually the most confident, as they don't feel that a woman rejecting them is a reflection of their manliness.

It is as simple as that.

 

[Mercury]

Your friend shouldn’t have split the bill lol and he shouldn’t mention marriage on 2nd date he could ask what kinda guy she’s looking for and he could tell her qualities he looks for in a girl

Simple as that

If they keep talking for a year or so and he likes her than he should tell her about marriage

 

[Mercury]

I don’t think there’s anything’s wrong with being a nice kind person in general it’s when you do something nice for others expecting something in return

I know a Somali guy who spent money on this Somali girl he was talking to for a year she curved him

When I asked her about it she hated getting gifts from him cause he always used to bring up the nice stuff he does for her and the things he buyed for him this guy even took money from his mom to spend on this girl how low can you go

 

[HalimaJ]

Your friend shouldn’t have split the bill lol and he shouldn’t mention marriage on 2nd date he could ask what kinda guy she’s looking for and he could tell her qualities he looks for in a girl

Simple as that

If they keep talking for a year or so and he likes her than he should tell her about marriage

I didn't read that part about him splitting the bill.

Yeah i don't blame her. I'd duck as well.

It would be a case of 'nice knowing you sahib, but this is my time to leave the scene'.

 

[Mercury]

I didn't read that part about him splitting the bill.

Yeah i don't blame her. I'd duck as well.

It would be a case of 'nice knowing you sahib, but this is my time to leave the scene'.

Probably why she agreed to split cause she don’t wanna see him again

 

[The alchemist]

Do nice guys finish last?

-Yes.

 

[Emily]

:siilaanyolaugh::siilaanyolaugh:

Agree with you. He's a bit of an open book and just says what he feels. She sadly wasn't fond of his approach lol. But nah girls in their early 20s can marry.

Your not really at the fountain of youth in your mid 20s. :siilaanyolaugh:

I think their should always be an age gap as girls mature quicker then guys tbh. But I'm also mess with older girls, who are a 4

Not true, mid twenties is the new early twenties even white girls who age faster don’t get married early.

People are getting married in their early thirties in America and other developed countries