Life was not supposed to be PERFECT. Nor people are supposed to be PERFECT. But guess what? Religion, controls us into falling into weakness of our imperfections. Islam makes us stay away from getting divorces, from putting our selfish desires first. etc etc Alpha guys are not perfect. Yes, he is good in sex, but not responsible like Nice guys. A dream husband for a woman is an Alpha in the bedroom, and Mr. Responsibility outside the bedroom. It aint happening.
Unfortunately, no Perfect humans. Every woman has to make the decision, which one is good for her.
Religion, takes our wants and needs, and make it about God, Family & etc etc
As opposed to what am i getting in return.