Divorced Halimo crying because husband took his children to Somalia

[Sky Geeljire]

What you've just said is tit for tat.. Your whole argument is that some horrible women do it, so its okay?!

Also, Somali couples hardly get the courts involved. They don't record their marriages, they hardly collect child support and they hardly fight over custody as most Faraxs prefer to start over again and marry a younger woman. Marrying again is hard, even as a man if you have full custody.

Yes, your right mothers aren't always the best fit, but generally they are. Especially when the kids are under 10. They need a mothers nurturing. That is why its mother, mother, mother and then father. That is why courts usually award custody to mums. I've been reading the comments section, turns out the maids back home are mostly raising the kids.

I don't know why you're defending such abhorrent behavior tbh and YOU have the audacity to accuse me of having an agenda. You can't even put your hatred for women to the side and feel sorry for kids being raised by maids because Dad wants to play tit for tat.

Wish you the best, but you're sick.

There we go.

Ladies and gents as you can clearly see, she now insulted me.

@Angelina You are predictably too emotional (calling me sick and accusing me of "hating" Women) for me to bother to school you. I take pity in Women like you that are consumed by entitlement.

A Man's role in the family is 50/50 to a Woman. You can look up the incarceration rates of children raised by single Mothers for Black & White proof.

Western courts violate Men and always give custody to Women. I know it is difficult to converse with someone of my calibre, since most Men nowadays submit to Women but we don't do that here.

End of discussion. You are too brain dead for me to carry on.

 

[Angelina]

There we go.

Ladies and gents as you can clearly see, she now insulted me.

@Angelina You are predictably too emotional (calling me sick and accusing me of "hating" Women) for me to bother to school you. I take pity in Women like you that are consumed by entitlement.

A Man's role in the family is 50/50 to a Woman. You can look up the incarceration rates of children raised by single Mothers for Black & White proof.

Western courts violate Men and always give custody to Women. I know it is difficult to converse with someone of my calibre, since most Men nowadays submit to Women but we don't do that here.

End of discussion. You are too brain dead for me to carry on.

Lol you're the emotional one. Even in Islamic courts the mother is awarded the child the majority of the time when the kids are under the age of 10. So where do we go from here?

A man's role in the early years are not 50/50. Why is it mother, mother, mother and then father? I'm paraphrasing a hadith here. Why is heaven under the feet of a mother and not a father? Women birth, breastfeed, nurture ect. Men and women aren't the same.

Anyways all of the above is a side point. The reason why I insulted you, is because you lack priniciples. Your whole point is, it happens to men, so women should accept it.

At least i'm consistant. I do not believe that a mother has a right to prevent a father from seeing his children and I do not believe a father has a right to deprive a mother from seeing their child. Anyone who thinks otherwise male or female is sick. I will leave this with you:

Abu Ayyub reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever separates a mother from her child, Allah will separate him from his loved ones on the Day of Resurrection.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1566

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani

عَنْ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ فَرَّقَ بَيْنَ وَالِدَةٍ وَوَلَدِهَا فَرَّقَ اللَّهُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ أَحِبَّتِهِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ

1566 سنن الترمذي كتاب السير باب في كراهية التفريق بين السبي

1566 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث حسن في صحيح الترمذي


So yes, carry on using 'Western' courts to justify something sick. Have some integrity and principles for once.

 

[Bundasliga]

They cry when the rules dont favour them but good God knows the horror that Aabo suffered in child custody cases. Now that the tables have turned they cry foul @Grigori Rasputin

What she thought tiktok can do for her? those s are mentally retarded every week buuq

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Yeah anyone who weaponizes their children against their significant other is pure scum, you having a deteriorating relationship with your partner, doesn't mean the kids gotta lose a parent.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

Why are you guys saying she’s an unfit mother? Poor lady …. She needs to play dirty

 

[PuntPlayer]

You know damm well depriving a kid of one parent isn't being responsible. Kids need a mum and dad.

You lot are disingenuous and psychotic. Please take your meds because your points are low IQ and lack common sense.

You know damm well depriving a kid of one parent isn't being responsible. Kids need a mum and dad.

You lot are disingenuous and psychotic. Please take your meds because your points are low IQ and lack common sense.

Lol you're the emotional one. Even in Islamic courts the mother is awarded the child the majority of the time when the kids are under the age of 10. So where do we go from here?

A man's role in the early years are not 50/50. Why is it mother, mother, mother and then father? I'm paraphrasing a hadith here. Why is heaven under the feet of a mother and not a father? Women birth, breastfeed, nurture ect. Men and women aren't the same.

Anyways all of the above is a side point. The reason why I insulted you, is because you lack priniciples. Your whole point is, it happens to men, so women should accept it.

At least i'm consistant. I do not believe that a mother has a right to prevent a father from seeing his children and I do not believe a father has a right to deprive a mother from seeing their child. Anyone who thinks otherwise male or female is sick. I will leave this with you:

Abu Ayyub reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever separates a mother from her child, Allah will separate him from his loved ones on the Day of Resurrection.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1566

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani

عَنْ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ فَرَّقَ بَيْنَ وَالِدَةٍ وَوَلَدِهَا فَرَّقَ اللَّهُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ أَحِبَّتِهِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ

1566 سنن الترمذي كتاب السير باب في كراهية التفريق بين السبي

1566 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث حسن في صحيح الترمذي


So yes, carry on using 'Western' courts to justify something sick. Have some integrity and principles for once.

Angelina I believe that when these children reach a age of maturity they will thank their father for the opportunity he gave them to be raised in an Islamic environment. I also believe that they will treat their mother better then they would if they were solely brought up in the west.

 

[Mehmet]

If you abandon your kids, they’ll call you a good for nothing dad. If you want to take care of them by all means necessary, they’ll call you crazy. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Yaab

Such a shame it is indeed

 

[Qeelbax]

I would kick out any unwanted intruder from my home remember this is Somalia where everyone and their grandma is strapped! She needs to just give and find a new husband to make kids, Islamically if you divorce an unfit mother you have the right to take away the kids. If her own male relatives refuse to defend her than who is in the wrong?

Please stop trying to use islam to push your sick agenda

 

[Qeelbax]

Damn, wallahi I’ve never seen a normal marriage. Too bad I can’t marry langaab, looks like I’ll be single forever.

 

[Qeelbax]

Angelina I believe that when these children reach a age of maturity they will thank their father for the opportunity he gave them to be raised in an Islamic environment. I also believe that they will treat their mother better then they would if they were solely brought up in the west.

Islamic environment? Kids taken from their mom to the worlds most corrupt country where a girl will be r*ped if she wears pants over the age of 7. Yahuu

 

[citrus_samurai]

Damn, wallahi I’ve never seen a normal marriage. Too bad I can’t marry langaab, looks like I’ll be single forever.

Why? What’s your ideal man

 

[Qeelbax]

Why? What’s your ideal man

A good husband who wants kids, only wants me, and won’t cheat. Won’t cause me problem and will do his role. Someone who will be put next to me when I die (Inshallah) and my spirit won’t be fighting his. No secrets. No divorce. No affair.
I just want a lifelong partner.
Pretty much a fictional abdi

 

[Abdalla]

Exactly bro,

This @Angelina character is all over the place.
The man took his kids. He took responsibility. He is providing them with education and Deen. He is providing them a male role model.
instead of praising this man you are automatically siding with a woman you know nothing abt.

These young xalimos with no life experience have no sense of reality. They believe in a divorce with ‘co-parenting’ wherein the father babysits when the mother is on a date. Divorce is an ugly event where one of the parents disappear. Sometimes the father loses and is banished, sometimes the mother. The fathers that have lost and were banished are called deadbeats, the fathers that hold on to their kids are crazy.

 

[Angelina]

These young xalimos with no life experience have no sense of reality. They believe in a divorce with ‘co-parenting’ wherein the father babysits when the mother is on a date. Divorce is an ugly event where one of the parents disappear. Sometimes the father loses and is banished, sometimes the mother. The fathers that have lost and were banished are called deadbeats, the fathers that hold on to their kids are crazy.

Co-parenting, or at least the other parent who doesn't have custody being able to see their child whenever, is the only moral and religious way.

It is categorically forbidden for you to weaponise your children and prevent them from seeing their parents.


Your problem is because you're coming up with immature one or the other black and white arguments. You cannot prevent kids from seeing their own parents and to make this worse, it turns out the father has maids to look after his children.


Anyways, those that prevent mums from seeing their kids are cursed according to our beautiful deen. They'll be prevented from seeing their loved ones on the DOJ. Mothers have a high status, more so than fathers, this is not a laughing matter.

 

[Abdalla]

Co-parenting, or at least the other parent who doesn't have custody being able to see their child whenever, is the only moral and religious way.

It is categorically forbidden for you to weaponise your children and prevent them from seeing their parents.


Your problem is because you're coming up with immature one or the other black and white arguments. You cannot prevent kids from seeing their own parents and to make this worse, it turns out the father has maids to look after his children.


Anyways, those that prevent mums from seeing their kids are cursed according to our beautiful deen. They'll be prevented from seeing their loved ones on the DOJ. Mothers have a high status, more so than fathers, this is not a laughing matter.

You only use the religion on me. Is it cause you know I’m a man of God?

I never heard of that Hadith, can you provide evidence?

 

[Angelina]

You only use the religion on me. Is it cause you know I’m a man of God?

I never heard of that Hadith, can you provide evidence?

You have wild takes, but you come across as one who takes his deen seriously. Tbh, i'll use it on any Somali as we're a group who understands the importance of motherhood and deeply respect the bond between a hooyo and her caruur. I'm shocked their toll (sub tribe) haven't sternly spoken to him.

Abu Ayyub reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever separates a mother from her child, Allah will separate him from his loved ones on the Day of Resurrection.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1566

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani

عَنْ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ فَرَّقَ بَيْنَ وَالِدَةٍ وَوَلَدِهَا فَرَّقَ اللَّهُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ أَحِبَّتِهِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ

1566 سنن الترمذي كتاب السير باب في كراهية التفريق بين السبي

1566 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث حسن في صحيح الترمذي

 

[Abdalla]

You have wild takes, but you come across as one who takes his deen seriously. Tbh, i'll use it on any Somali as we're a group who understands the importance of motherhood and deeply respect the bond between a hooyo and her caruur. I'm shocked their toll (sub tribe) haven't sternly spoken to him.

Abu Ayyub reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever separates a mother from her child, Allah will separate him from his loved ones on the Day of Resurrection.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1566

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani

عَنْ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ فَرَّقَ بَيْنَ وَالِدَةٍ وَوَلَدِهَا فَرَّقَ اللَّهُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ أَحِبَّتِهِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ

1566 سنن الترمذي كتاب السير باب في كراهية التفريق بين السبي

1566 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث حسن في صحيح الترمذي

I am one of those that when the revelation reaches them stops and say ‘we hear and obey’. Give the woman her children.

@Grigori, you’re on your own.

 

[Abdalla]

Angelina, I’ll see you on the rebound

 

[Mercury]

Somalis 99% never go to family court over child custody or child support so I don't see why a man can't put his ego aside and sit down with the mother of the children on the importance of being in the children's life its as if when divorce happens alot guys don't want anything to do with the ex-wife which is odd to me cause if you have kids with someone you gonna always be connected to that person due to having kids

 

[Mercury]

Exactly bro,

This @Angelina character is all over the place.
The man took his kids. He took responsibility. He is providing them with education and Deen. He is providing them a male role model.
instead of praising this man you are automatically siding with a woman you know nothing abt.

If hes a good dad he wouldn't lie to the mom that hes taking the kids on a vacation to me it sounds like the guy was wanted to hurt her by taking the kids away from the mum alienate her and than make a story of how she is a bad unfit mom who don't want her kids I wouldn't be suprised if he twisted the story in his favour