it's likely the lack of education
girls here at the very least know the risks of promiscuous behaviour, and there's no inhibition either. everyone's dirty laundry comes out at some point in the west, and it's only a matter of time before a rumour becomes a gut-wrenching discussion topic.
what i cannot fathom is how somali people are still so sanctimonious with their religious standing. if you've fucked, smoked, drank, and sinned on that level (on a consistent basis no less) how exactly are you supposed to reach the promised land?