Did I overreact?

[Ferrari]

Yes you did. He dodged a bullet, y'al barely talked yet you were so full of yourself already like you got the world's last fajina.

He deserves better.

 

[Mercury]

Dinner at your place?

It’s unnecessary in my opinion You can keep things halal and get to know a girl fine in a coffee shop or take a walk in the park If you want to go to her place with the two of you alone it can lead to zina best way to prevent it is simply by not meeting alone like this guy suggested

To me this sounds something an cadaan person would do not a religious Muslim

Imo there’s only 2 scenarios I would go to a girls house for dinner it’s when where serious and I get to see her family and second one is when asking for her hand in marriage that’s it there’s no other valid reason

 

[Ubax45_]

No, you didn't overreact. Smh.

 

[Kingjames]

Round to mine.
Looooool apologise kulaha. Quite frankly, Im waiting for an apology and even then Im not interested. The first time you meet me and it's in my room? Excuse me God's land is large and wide, Im not quite sure what brings you to my small small room.

You’re in control if it’s your house, you could have kicked the nigga out if he was on some sneaky shit. You are acting out for no reason, sit your ass down

 

[Basra]

I was talking to a nice Farax who I was meant to meet up with for coffee. My man was lovely, held good conversation, mature etc. So once evening, he is telling me how excited he is to see me and suggests when Im first back in town, he will pick me up and we will go round to mine where can have dinner. Bear in mind, we've never met before. I absolutely lost it at that point- I was offended. I felt attacked. I could see *red*.

I told him I perhaps misread him and maybe he is looking for something else, before politely reminding him he could always just download the Tinder app. I then told him there and then I don't want to get to know him anymore bcos thats not how a good,respectable man talks. He didn't reply after that.

Did I overreact?

PS- Ive never gone on a date before so this would've been my first and Im just so disappointed bcos I was really starting to like him.

Abaaayo

Never second guess yourself. U must stand for something or u will fall for anything. U have stated your standard, informed him what u r looking for and thats it. Obviously he wanted to hit and run, and u have shown yourself to be better than that. Kudos to u. Either he will come correct, & by that i mean, propose to u, or he has moved ob with lovely Emily.

 

[Oortcloud]

Yes you did you imagined stuff that weren't there

 

[Mercury]

Yes you did you imagined stuff that weren't there

Its wise to be careful and protect yourself rather than being reckless

 

[Hatredfree]

You are so full of yourself. I bet you wanted him to take you to a fancy restaurant?

 

[XaawoLuul]

You are so full of yourself. I bet you wanted him to take you to a fancy restaurant?

Somali incels are really out here attacking me for having basic boundaries. I did not once mention going to a 'fancy restuarant'.

 

[XaawoLuul]

Abaaayo

Never second guess yourself. U must stand for something or u will fall for anything. U have stated your standard, informed him what u r looking for and thats it. Obviously he wanted to hit and run, and u have shown yourself to be better than that. Kudos to u. Either he will come correct, & by that i mean, propose to u, or he has moved ob with lovely Emily.

Thanks for the assurance sis.

 

[Fels]

I was talking to a nice Farax who I was meant to meet up with for coffee. My man was lovely, held good conversation, mature etc. So once evening, he is telling me how excited he is to see me and suggests when Im first back in town, he will pick me up and we will go round to mine where can have dinner. Bear in mind, we've never met before. I absolutely lost it at that point- I was offended. I felt attacked. I could see *red*.

I told him I perhaps misread him and maybe he is looking for something else, before politely reminding him he could always just download the Tinder app. I then told him there and then I don't want to get to know him anymore bcos thats not how a good,respectable man talks. He didn't reply after that.

Did I overreact?

PS- Ive never gone on a date before so this would've been my first and Im just so disappointed bcos I was really starting to like him.

Good job you saved yourself from him getting into your kastomo

 

[Gooney112]

You are so full of yourself. I bet you wanted him to take you to a fancy restaurant?

Imagine she invited a man she never met to her home and he rapes her. People woukd say how you gonna invite a man you never met toy our home....that was reckless. The sister did well. Hell as a guy if a chance ck i never met said we meet at your place i would be suspicious she is up to no good

 

[FendiFanatic]

Let my nigga hit bro what the fucks wrong with you he likes pussy you like dick why hold back I hate when es do that shit

Like if you see a nigga that you think is hot let him smash wtffff

 

[Inquisitive_]

Types of responses from women and their meanings to the "come dine with me" question.

"Yes" = I am an outright thirsting for you.

"Suggesting alternative locations" = Too early to expose my dom to you for now, need more assurances from you to open these gates.

"Casual No without cut off" = possibly open to the idea in the future. 50/50 (guy with a solid game easily converts such women)

"Strict No! followed by a complete cutoff" = women with immense self respect, dignity and shame that comes from a good family (very rare in the west)

@XaawoLuul

You seem to be oscillating between the casual no without cutoff to the strict no with cut off, because of your believes that you overacted.

I get the impression from your description that you regard this dude perhaps subconsciously above your league or perhaps above any other potential you ever met.

If that's the case then such an overreaction from you is expected, but if this dude is nothing special compared to what you met/interacted with before, your overreaction is just a disappointing 'casual no'

 

[YourBroMoe]

Types of responses from women and their meanings to the "come dine with me" question.

"Yes" = I am an outright thirsting for you.

"Suggesting alternative locations" = Too early to expose my dom to you for now, need more assurances from you to open these gates.

"Casual No without cut off" = possibly open to the idea in the future. 50/50 (guy with a solid game easily converts such women)

"No! followed by a complete cutoff" = women with immense self respect, dignity and shame that comes from a good family (very rare in the west)

@XaawoLuul

You seem to be oscillating between the casual no without cutoff to the strict no with cut off, because of your believes that you overacted.

I get the impression from your description that you regard this dude perhaps subconsciously above your league or perhaps above any other potential you ever met.

If that's the case then such an overreaction from you is expected, but if this dude is nothing special compared to what you met/interacted with before, your overreaction is just a disappointing 'casual no'

Damn, this is one hell of an explanation!

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Types of responses from women and their meanings to the "come dine with me" question.

"Yes" = I am an outright thirsting for you.

"Suggesting alternative locations" = Too early to expose my dom to you for now, need more assurances from you to open these gates.

"Casual No without cut off" = possibly open to the idea in the future. 50/50 (guy with a solid game easily converts such women)

"Strict No! followed by a complete cutoff" = women with immense self respect, dignity and shame that comes from a good family (very rare in the west)

@XaawoLuul

You seem to be oscillating between the casual no without cutoff to the strict no with cut off, because of your believes that you overacted.

I get the impression from your description that you regard this dude perhaps subconsciously above your league or perhaps above any other potential you ever met.

If that's the case then such an overreaction from you is expected, but if this dude is nothing special compared to what you met/interacted with before, your overreaction is just a disappointing 'casual no'

Wallahi you are actually spot on with this one

 

[Emily]

Types of responses from women and their meanings to the "come dine with me" question.

"Yes" = I am an outright thirsting for you.

"Suggesting alternative locations" = Too early to expose my dom to you for now, need more assurances from you to open these gates.

"Casual No without cut off" = possibly open to the idea in the future. 50/50 (guy with a solid game easily converts such women)

"Strict No! followed by a complete cutoff" = women with immense self respect, dignity and shame that comes from a good family (very rare in the west)

@XaawoLuul

You seem to be oscillating between the casual no without cutoff to the strict no with cut off, because of your believes that you overacted.

I get the impression from your description that you regard this dude perhaps subconsciously above your league or perhaps above any other potential you ever met.

If that's the case then such an overreaction from you is expected, but if this dude is nothing special compared to what you met/interacted with before, your overreaction is just a disappointing 'casual no'

Stfu suggesting alternative place means a public place like a restaurant or cafe , stop assuming everyone is down for sex. Anyway sex is not even a big deal
I can’t stand sexist sexually repressed holier than thou nutheads

 

[XaawoLuul]

Types of responses from women and their meanings to the "come dine with me" question.

"Yes" = I am an outright thirsting for you.

"Suggesting alternative locations" = Too early to expose my dom to you for now, need more assurances from you to open these gates.

"Casual No without cut off" = possibly open to the idea in the future. 50/50 (guy with a solid game easily converts such women)

"Strict No! followed by a complete cutoff" = women with immense self respect, dignity and shame that comes from a good family (very rare in the west)

@XaawoLuul

You seem to be oscillating between the casual no without cutoff to the strict no with cut off, because of your believes that you overacted.

I get the impression from your description that you regard this dude perhaps subconsciously above your league or perhaps above any other potential you ever met.

If that's the case then such an overreaction from you is expected, but if this dude is nothing special compared to what you met/interacted with before, your overreaction is just a disappointing 'casual no'

I actually agree with what you said.
Nahh the guy is deffo not above my league, in fact I am probably out of his but he is certainly better than all the other guys Ive spoken to. But at least the other guys were respectful and had correct intentions.
My luck, eh?