Did I overreact?

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I think it depends on him as a person tbh. I am going to say you may have overreacted.

If he has otherwise been perfectly polite and straightforward with his intentions... he might've just fucked up and you should've suggested going somewhere public. If he even slightly insisted on going to his place, he most likely has other intentions.
 

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A guy you never met in person says we meet at my house Im gonna cook for you. Come on are girls this naive nowadays. Oldest trick in the book
Not every guy is a creepy sexually frustrated loser, he is not gonna force you if ain’t down for it.
Personally I wouldn’t go to his house on a first date specially if we met on social media but I wouldn’t go nuts on him, I would just make some other suggestions
 
Not every guy is a creepy sexually frustrated loser, he is not gonna force you if ain’t down for it.
Personally I wouldn’t go to his house on a first date specially if we met on social media but I wouldn’t go nuts on him, I would just make some other suggestions
you right. Not every guy is a creep who will force himself on you. But some are hence why this is a big no no. I know you say you wouldnt.

But like I said a lot of girls dont know how guys think. A guy will treat you how you present yourself. 9/10 if a guy suggest first date in my place. He thinks you are easy and why waste time on dates. But a guy dont suggest this to any girl. For me he already got an idea of her hence he asked this. As a girl you should actually be offended by it. Means he thinks she is easy
 
you right. Not every guy is a creep who will force himself on you. But some are hence why this is a big no no. I know you say you wouldnt.

But like I said a lot of girls dont know how guys think. A guy will treat you how you present yourself. 9/10 if a guy suggest first date in my place. He thinks you are easy and why waste time on dates. But a guy dont suggest this to any girl. For me he already got an idea of her hence he asked this. As a girl you should actually be offended by it. Means he thinks she is easy

That's what Im saying!! I dont talk inappropiately, dont dress scantily etc. Ive never had a guy suggest something so rude ever. I dont know how he could dare say that to me. Im trying to understand what's gone on but I dont see anything I couldve done differently. Im literally one of the most conservative and shy girls out there and my guy has the audacity to say that to me.
 
That's what Im saying!! I dont talk inappropiately, dont dress scantily etc. Ive never had a guy suggest something so rude ever. I dont know how he could dare say that to me. Im trying to understand what's gone on but I dont see anything I couldve done differently. Im literally one of the most conservative and shy girls out there and my guy has the audacity to say that to me.
Yeah he was so wrong for that wallahi. Total disrespect and his intentions are clear
 

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you right. Not every guy is a creep who will force himself on you. But some are hence why this is a big no no. I know you say you wouldnt.

But like I said a lot of girls dont know how guys think. A guy will treat you how you present yourself. 9/10 if a guy suggest first date in my place. He thinks you are easy and why waste time on dates. But a guy dont suggest this to any girl. For me he already got an idea of her hence he asked this. As a girl you should actually be offended by it. Means he thinks she is easy
I am a grown ass woman, acting hard to get and playing games are for elementary kids. Honestly it depends on the guy’s culture, sex is not big deal to western guys. I don’t care if he suggests the date or not as long as we are comfortable with each other I am cool,
 
I am a grown ass woman, acting hard to get and playing games are for elementary kids. Honestly it depends on the guy’s culture, sex is not big deal to western guys. I don’t care if he suggests the date or not as long as we are comfortable with each other I am cool,
True....but somalis are different. Specially religious ones
 

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Clarify this. Did he want you to take you to his home or he wanted to meet in your home? It sounds like in your post that he wanted to go to your place? In that case he wanted to see your cooking skills, and see whether you're marriage material.

I do not believe he wanted sex, because if that was the case he would've send you sexual hints while you were texting. Guys don't go from zero to 100 sexual, it's a process that builds up after each convo. Call up the guy and apologise qumayoyahay
 
Clarify this. Did he want you to take you to his home or he wanted to meet in your home? It sounds like in your post that he wanted to go to your place? In that case he wanted to see your cooking skills, and see whether you're marriage material.

I do not believe he wanted sex, because if that was the case he would've send you sexual hints while you were texting. Guys don't go from zero to 100 sexual, it's a process that builds up after each convo. Call up the guy and apologise qumayoyahay

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Looooool apologise kulaha. Quite frankly, Im waiting for an apology and even then Im not interested. The first time you meet me and it's in my room? Excuse me God's land is large and wide, Im not quite sure what brings you to my small small room.
 

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Round to mine.
Looooool apologise kulaha. Quite frankly, Im waiting for an apology and even then Im not interested. The first time you meet me and it's in my room? Excuse me God's land is large and wide, Im not quite sure what brings you to my small small room.

People here thought he invited you to his place, thats why they thought he wanted to have sex. He comes from other city, he has minimal interactions with you, so he wants to see the whole package. He saw you, he wants to see whether you can cook and cater to his needs. Or see whether you live with males ( to determine whether you're still innocent). He only suggested that because he knows you don't live with your parents

He didnt say he wants to meet in your room, he wants you to cook for him. Stop overreacting
 
Round to mine.
Looooool apologise kulaha. Quite frankly, Im waiting for an apology and even then Im not interested. The first time you meet me and it's in my room? Excuse me God's land is large and wide, Im not quite sure what brings you to my small small room.

How did he react?
 
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