Did I overreact?

[XaawoLuul]

I was talking to a nice Farax who I was meant to meet up with for coffee. My man was lovely, held good conversation, mature etc. So once evening, he is telling me how excited he is to see me and suggests when Im first back in town, he will pick me up and we will go round to mine where can have dinner. Bear in mind, we've never met before. I absolutely lost it at that point- I was offended. I felt attacked. I could see *red*.

I told him I perhaps misread him and maybe he is looking for something else, before politely reminding him he could always just download the Tinder app. I then told him there and then I don't want to get to know him anymore bcos thats not how a good,respectable man talks. He didn't reply after that.

Did I overreact?

PS- Ive never gone on a date before so this would've been my first and Im just so disappointed bcos I was really starting to like him.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

He wanted to f*ck you, point blank!

I always try to lure a chick into my place with the premises of “I wanna cook you dinner”

 

[feen]

He wanted to f*ck you, point blank!

I always try to lure a chick into my place with the premises of “I wanna cook you dinner”

i usually lure them in by telling them that i want to meet their parents and that usually takes of the pressure.

 

[XaawoLuul]

He wanted to f*ck you, point blank!

I always try to lure a chick into my place with the premises of “I wanna cook you dinner”

Rahh. I appreaciate your honesty. Guys are evil wallahi, why would you try to corrupt a miskeen girl like me when you can just find a local Becky who would be down for anything. *Sigh*

 

[Muji]

No you were perfect.

If you want to keep a man around treat him like shit, play with his mind and act non-chalant. If you are texting 5 other guys you won’t be giving one too much attention.

@Samira I’m keen to hear your advice

 

[Luna]

Nope. He is a dutty man. You dodged a bullet. He just wanted to get under your googorad without paying meher
When will these men realize you got to pay tf up? Shit ain't free

 

[XaawoLuul]

i usually lure them in by telling them that i want to meet their parents and that usually takes of the pressure.

Looking at all of you 'luring' poor girls in. Can't wait for karma to 'lure' you in.

 

[feen]

Looking at all of you 'luring' poor girls in. Can't wait for karma to 'lure' you in.

that already happened huuno. sometimes it feels like me and karma are family.

 

[XaawoLuul]

No you were perfect.

If you want to keep a man around treat him like shit, play with his mind and act non-chalant. If you are texting 5 other guys you won’t be giving one too much attention.

@Samira I’m keen to hear your advice

Well I don't want to keep a shit guy around anyway.
Yeah I know what you mean- if you entertain many, you won't get hang up on any.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Rahh. I appreaciate your honesty. Guys are evil wallahi, why would you try to corrupt a miskeen girl like me when you can just find a local Becky who would be down for anything. *Sigh*

A man who wants you for marriage purposes would perserve you not take you to the ultimate temptation place, a home

 

[XaawoLuul]

that already happened huuno. sometimes it feels like me and karma are family.

Time to change your ways then? It's not worth it.

 

[XaawoLuul]

A man who wants you for marriage purposes would perserve you not take you to the ultimate temptation place, a home

True. But....why would you want to make me your mistress? Im no loose woman?

 

[feen]

Time to change your ways then? It's not worth it.

i am kind falling in love with karma

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

True. But....why would you want to make me your mistress? Im no loose woman?

I never said I want you as my mistress

I want you as my concubine

 

[XaawoLuul]

Nope. He is a dutty man. You dodged a bullet. He just wanted to get under your googorad without paying meher
When will these men realize you got to pay tf up? Shit ain't free

See I asked my friends and they were like 'errm maybe you misunderstood blah blah...' ffs. He was a khasaaro indeed.

 

[XaawoLuul]

I never said I want you as my mistress

I want you as my concubine

Oh shut up man. Leave your concubine jokes for another day

 

[YourBroMoe]

I was talking to a nice Farax who I was meant to meet up with for coffee. My man was lovely, held good conversation, mature etc. So once evening, he is telling me how excited he is to see me and suggests when Im first back in town, he will pick me up and we will go round to mine where can have dinner. Bear in mind, we've never met before. I absolutely lost it at that point- I was offended. I felt attacked. I could see *red*.

I told him I perhaps misread him and maybe he is looking for something else, before politely reminding him he could always just download the Tinder app. I then told him there and then I don't want to get to know him anymore bcos thats not how a good,respectable man talks. He didn't reply after that.

Did I overreact?

PS- Ive never gone on a date before so this would've been my first and Im just so disappointed bcos I was really starting to like him.

Nah you followed your gut. You did the right thing. If it feels weird to me, I bounce too. And I'm a man. Your decisions are your own.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Oh shut up man. Leave your concubine jokes for another day

Another give away clue is..
He never called you again....this is what I do when the chick is too conservative, to complicated to get what I want ....a guy calculates his chances

 

[Luna]

See I asked my friends and they were like 'errm maybe you misunderstood blah blah...' ffs. He was a khasaaro indeed.

Nah, I think your friends are a bit naive

Did you meet on a dating app/website? A lot of guys on there are suss tbh.

Its easier to understand someone's intentions if you are speaking face to face imo.

 

[XaawoLuul]

Nah, I think your friends are a bit naive

Did you meet on a dating app/website? A lot of guys on there are suss tbh.

Its easier to understand someone's intentions if you are speaking face to face imo.

Met him on Insta, we had mutuals. He was so well-mannered on the phone I just didn't see this coming.