Dhegacas women are weird

I started working with this one iraqi girl at my clinic and she acts very weird to me. I wasn’t trying to be her friend but I thought we’d vibe and have some sort of good rapport because we’re the only two muslims at the clinic but she’s very distant and standoffish. Barely even says hi. Yet so friendly to the other nurses. I have her on Instagram too and she’s always viewing my stories but never liking my pics. Gonna delete her soon.

Now that I think about it I’ve never had any close carab friends in my life (except Sudanese but they’re East African so they’re basically our people lol). They always have a weird energy and come off as rude
 
I started working with this one iraqi girl at my clinic and she acts very weird to me. I thought we’d vibe and have some sort of good rapport because we’re the only two muslims at the clinic but she’s very distant and standoffish. Barely even says hi. Yet so friendly to the other nurses. I have her on Instagram too and she’s always viewing my stories but never liking my pics.

Now that I think about it I’ve never had any close carab friends in my life (except Sudanese but they’re East African so they’re basically our people lol). They always have a weird energy and come off as rude

I'm petty so I'm going to advise you to reciprocate; act as though she doesn't exist; be super effusive and familiar with all the other nurses and act as if she occupies an empty space, even if she's right in front of you...

..She's probably much shorter than you, so if she dares to call you out, just say 'oh, I didn't see you there'

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AbrahamFreedom

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Barring uncommon exceptions, Arab Muslims won't feel connected to you simply because you're Muslim. Many don't feel connected to other Arabs, sometimes even from their own country. She probably figured out why you were trying to befriend her and feels irritated by it.
 

hinters

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If she don't wanna be friends cut her off don't waste your energy on someone that doesn't like you.
 
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She could be racist, or she might want to distant herself from you being the only other muslim. I've seen it from somalis who don't wear hijab who want to mix in with others. They feel like you're presence is a burden on their freedom to be.
 
Barring uncommon exceptions, Arab Muslims won't feel connected to you simply because you're Muslim. Many don't feel connected to other Arabs, sometimes even from their own country. She probably figured out why you were trying to befriend her and feels irritated by it.
I wasn’t trying to be her friend (I don’t befriend coworkers unless we really click) but just cordial. It’s a small clinic and we all work very closely together, so the shift goes by a lot faster when you can chat and be friendly. And she’s the only coworker I have that acts weird like that. I mean who ignores someone saying hi to them.

But yea I’ll just ignore her from now on.
 
I started working with this one iraqi girl at my clinic and she acts very weird to me. I wasn’t trying to be her friend but I thought we’d vibe and have some sort of good rapport because we’re the only two muslims at the clinic but she’s very distant and standoffish. Barely even says hi. Yet so friendly to the other nurses. I have her on Instagram too and she’s always viewing my stories but never liking my pics. Gonna delete her soon.

Now that I think about it I’ve never had any close carab friends in my life (except Sudanese but they’re East African so they’re basically our people lol). They always have a weird energy and come off as rude
I have a lot of Algerian Libyan Moroccan friends and they are very welcoming people you shouldn’t generalise
 

iftiina

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I started working with this one iraqi girl at my clinic and she acts very weird to me. I wasn’t trying to be her friend but I thought we’d vibe and have some sort of good rapport because we’re the only two muslims at the clinic but she’s very distant and standoffish. Barely even says hi. Yet so friendly to the other nurses. I have her on Instagram too and she’s always viewing my stories but never liking my pics. Gonna delete her soon.

Now that I think about it I’ve never had any close carab friends in my life (except Sudanese but they’re East African so they’re basically our people lol). They always have a weird energy and come off as rude
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Yaraye

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I started working with this one iraqi girl at my clinic and she acts very weird to me. I wasn’t trying to be her friend but I thought we’d vibe and have some sort of good rapport because we’re the only two muslims at the clinic but she’s very distant and standoffish. Barely even says hi. Yet so friendly to the other nurses. I have her on Instagram too and she’s always viewing my stories but never liking my pics. Gonna delete her soon.

Now that I think about it I’ve never had any close carab friends in my life (except Sudanese but they’re East African so they’re basically our people lol). They always have a weird energy and come off as rude
Many women stalk another women’s socials with bad intentions. Block her, who knows what kind of motives she got :gaasdrink::gaasdrink:
 

HuunoHunter

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I wasn’t trying to be her friend (I don’t befriend coworkers unless we really click) but just cordial. It’s a small clinic and we all work very closely together, so the shift goes by a lot faster when you can chat and be friendly. And she’s the only coworker I have that acts weird like that. I mean who ignores someone saying hi to them.

But yea I’ll just ignore her from now on.
Don't bother with them walal, she's not even fulfilling your right upon her as another Muslim.
 

Qeelbax

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Wallahi you’re kinda right. I had a Lebanese coworker that would stick her long ass plastic nose up at me. All I wanted was to snatch Dr. Kims work off
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I wouldn’t generalize though but I’ve noticed some Arabs got stank attitude with Somalis but drop like flies around cadaan
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Average “POC”
:comeon:
 
I started working with this one iraqi girl at my clinic and she acts very weird to me. I wasn’t trying to be her friend but I thought we’d vibe and have some sort of good rapport because we’re the only two muslims at the clinic but she’s very distant and standoffish. Barely even says hi. Yet so friendly to the other nurses. I have her on Instagram too and she’s always viewing my stories but never liking my pics. Gonna delete her soon.

Now that I think about it I’ve never had any close carab friends in my life (except Sudanese but they’re East African so they’re basically our people lol). They always have a weird energy and come off as rude
are you American?
uk Arabs are calm imo
 

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