Even the so-called 'roach class', are your ethnic group, and you need to protect your sisters and advise them in private. Throwing them under the bus in front of other ethnic groups, is hurtful. Lead your people, by protecting them from others.
When they see more men speaking to them with compassion and leadership, they will follow suit. The 'masculinity' is because they see a lack of masculinity in their lives. They want to be protected and provided for.
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I get what you're saying. I even agree with the method somewhat. Is it practical? Would it work in this modern era? HELLZ NO!
The only way to lead by setting a standard example is changing the narrative.
Easier said than done. Name a non yt western group that controls it's own narrative. That's by design for a reason. Those who control the narrative control the people.
To change that narrative u better be ready for war ON ALL FRONTS. Not everyone understands that or is even built like that - what happened to Malcom again?
You're dealing with an EXTREMELY pseudo independent/combative demographic.
1 on 1 personal talks in private?

MAYBE if one of them gets with a dude they're feeling - but even that dynamic has its limits.
You're talking about women that are combative towards even their own fathers & brothers, & many have ZERO problems throwing u to the system if that's what it'll take to silence u so they can do as they please IN PEACE.. (Modern day black women are akin to slave catchers imo) - not even joking. It's that bad.
All that, let me talk to u energy gets dismissed and seen as weakness & being nerdy to many of them.
If X was alive I'm sure he'd agree to some extent.He lived in a much different time.
Women were bad back in those days to but socially it was a lot different.
They were ALOT more conscious of this world.
Chicks these days TWERK on gravesites!!!!!!!!
Yes.. I've seen a video of a chick twerk on the stone remembrance of MLK!
No awareness - No consciousness, just complete unhinged behavior.
A woman from X's era u could deprogram because they already had the building blocks.
2024?

Nothing but a empty void exist where the brain should be. I know.. I've tried!
& I didn't have radical takes.
Like Religion:
Mostly surface level stuff easy to dissect & understand without having to know a ton of history.
Me - Why do u prefer wearing the hair texture of white/Asian women over your own? Black hair is beautiful
The response - I do what I want THIS MY HAIR I paid for it - U ain't my daddy

VERBATIM!
More than u realize share that sentiment.
If we can't talk to them employing the soft topics 1st all that other stuff is a pipe dream.
I don't even try anymore because I realize it's futile UNLESS the person I'm targeting is someone I actually wanna build something with. Unlikely with the state of things so I'd rather remain single.
To many layers of rot exist so I'm taking the path of least resistance. Africa.
What region, what culture, not sure yet. When I figure that & myself out I'm on the 1st flight outta here fr.
The west is DONE - I wish my people the best but I REFUSE to die on this sinking ship.
Self preservation is real.