All you young Somali guys, wallahi stop listening to Somali women. They cannot be objective in their criticism of you as a Somali male. Whether they're young girls your own age or grown women in their 30's, whether they're liberal or traditional - it makes no difference. To them, you as a collective, are the root of all their problems. You're the reason they're poor, single and disenfranchised.
The idea that the community is somehow catering to you is utter nonsense. I have little good to say about older Somali males. Your mothers love you, but they're just out of their element.