Could you cope with the fact that your Family abandoned you forever?

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Like no ever talkin again like everyone wont associate with u forever in yo family

 

[Revolutionary]

They'd have to kick me out since i live with them, if that for whatever reason happens and i end up in shelter or whatever oh well, when im rich and famous it'll only make my backstory even better

 

[XaawoLuul]

Are you okay walaal?

Youve made a series of worrying threads.

PS: Forums are not a substtitute for appropiate help & therapy (and this goes for many of you).

 

[Piccolo]

No
Everything ok sxb?

 

[Nak Muay]

Depends on how badly I fucked up

 

[Aurelian]

They abandoned you for misbehaving( cyaal suuq oo dhaqada kabaxay) or what?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Are you okay walaal?

Youve made a series of worrying threads.

PS: Forums are not a substtitute for appropiate help & therapy (and this goes for many of you).

Im okay but its mad me sad and since I have never had contact with many somalis since there are very few in my country/ City I can finally ask this question and get answers from the view of our dhaqan
But yes its true they abandonded me nearly one year ago bcoz I had to serve 1 year in Prison even tho Im trying to stay on the right path they wont talk with me or let me live with them
Im financial alright but it hurts still

 

[The Somali Caesar]

Already happened to me when I was a teenager. I can laugh about it now but it was tough I can’t lie. But I’m a tough cookie

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Already happened to me when I was a teenager. I can laugh about it now but it was tough I can’t lie. But I’m a tough cookie

Why ?
R U cool with the fam now?

 

[XaawoLuul]

Im okay but its mad me sad and since I have never had contact with many somalis since there are very few in my country/ City I can finally ask this question and get answers from the view of our dhaqan
But yes its true they abandonded me nearly one year ago bcoz I had to serve 1 year in Prison even tho Im trying to stay on the right path they wont talk with me or let me live with them
Im financial alright but it hurts still

Im sorry to hear that. That must be hard.

We all mess up but I hope you’ve turned a new page (although your thread about how to make money with no regards to right&wrong is concerning).

Perhaps you could reach out to a family relative you trust? Maybe there is someone who hasnt completely cut you off?
Maybe find the local masjid/ the local practising community?

You need good human company and someone to help guide you.

Honestly, real contentment and success comes from holding onto the rope of Allah.

 

[XaawoLuul]

Your family inshallah they’ll come around eventually.
Not all families are the same.

At the end of the day you let them down and theyre heartbroken.

 

[The Somali Caesar]

Why ?
R U cool with the fam now?

•It’s a long story.
•It’s complicated